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pubeman

21 / M / straight / Single

Madras, India

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
More than $1,000,000
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am elemental, conversational, and i dont know!.

My Self-Summary

i would say im more of a 'quality rather than quantity' sorta person.i like to consider myself at one with the universe and i consider nature to be god.i enjoy simple pleasures and good intentions more than anything else. i like witty and interesting conversations.

What I’m doing with my life

hmm i just finished college..im trying to get a bearing on life now.
currently trying to read a big list of books..

trying my hand at programming or learning to program rather.

like to go for an occasional movie with close friends.

playing a lot of football.

and of course sleeping.

im deciding whether to study further or start working..although i think i would be motivated to study further only if i feel i could make some contribution to society.

I’m really good at

i think im good at conversing with people. that would be my best talent. i can make them feel comfortable with me and even make them laugh.but sometimes i try too hard and it backfires lol.

learning things myself.i hate to be taught stuff by others unless the person who guides you is genuinely interested in what he does.

im somewhat good i would say at sculpting(going by the chalk sculptures i would make at college(during lecture hours of course:D) but these would be just toes or fingers....i dunno how i would fare with larger pieces of chalk).

The first things people usually notice about me

person next to me smiles/laughs a lot

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books..many..anything tht catches my minds eye.
iv read one of paulo coelho's books called eleven minutes.pretty good a read that was must say.

i liked the lotr series...i like the intensity building up on frodo steadily...the scenes in the forest...in fact iv started to trek because of the vivid descriptions of the forests in these books..heh

i like to try many authors.i find nicholas sparks books the most unpretentious ones...i prefer poignant books than fast paced ones..but now and then a book like the Da Vinci Code excites me.

music...anything that makes me forget my existence for a while...i think andrea bocelli's voice is capable of that.
Roby lakatos on the violin,sarah brightman(time to say goodbye),lucky ali(sunoh),sting(desert rose),phil collins(in the air tonight),,,good music is like swiss chocolate i feel.

movies...recently watched Inbruges..loved it...mar adrento(the sea inside)..no need to mention Javier Bardem's acting skills..such a finely tuned actor he is! not many unless they r highly recommended by my friends.nowadays iv stopped trusting their recommendations.

food...although i would like to gorge on 'classy' food, my purse doesnt allow such splurges so im exposed to street food mostly,i like eating from cheap value for money sorta places,dhabhas,beach side sandwich shops,'chinese' food shops on the roadside,tea from a mallu guys tea shop,rose milk from a tallu guys rose milk shop,fried fish from the beach side,fried chicken from the bridgeside,in short im gastrononically adventurous.i like the kebab festivals held by radison hotel..exquisite.they.are.
other than that you just cant beat home cooked food for sheer wholesomeness.

The six things I could never do without

my swiss knife

the shuffle feature on the ipod shuffle-too bad my headphones are full of sand..:(

some time for myself to contemplate (dont ask me about wat lol)

a fast internet connection

some more things too but only these come to mind immediately.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Love and its causes and effects;(even though its pointless)

i think long about where everything is going..all the ambition and materialism present today.can the earth sustain this?if so for how long?i feel the next 100 years are crucial to ensure mans survival and every resource must be used sparingly.a simple lifestyle would be ideal.

on a lighter note...why no amount of RAM seems to be enough for windows to run smoothly.

On a typical Friday night I am

chatting with my friends at the beach.or playing catches with them on the marina beach, dodging lovers while simultaneously trying to prevent their snogging sessions from being interrupted by a speeding tennis ball. or an ill tempered football match with them in an ill lit football ground or the marina beach which is also ill lit. I love the beach.i love football too but only if i play well that day ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

if its private im not admitting it.

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