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publicprivateer

30 / M / straight / Single

Falls Church, Virginia

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

Self-analysis is not my strong suit, but I have been described in the past as funny, smart, and anything but usual. I'm from Colorado originally, and I imagine I will always have a bit of a western attitude. I am mystified by the fact that seemingly everyone in this town is in a perpetual rush, yet no one is ever on time for anything.

I love laughing and making people laugh. I'd say my sense of humor can be alternately goofy, dry, dark, or sarcastic, depending on my mood (usually sarcastic).

A few other things I like: hilariously bad movies, discovering cool stuff before anyone else, music video games (Rock Band, woo!), the feeling I get after a good workout (I've really come to enjoy running), figuring out a tricky problem, exploring.

A few things I'm not such a fan of: Reality TV, mustard, humidity, bad drivers.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a software engineer developing and maintaining software for a couple government agencies. It can provide some interesting challenges.

I’m really good at

Trivia. Logic games (sudoku, for example). Doing math in my head. Making my friends laugh. Finding the humor in almost any situation. Purchasing the right gift (sometimes). Punctuality. Cooking, for an amateur.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I read quite a bit, probably 1-2 books a month on average. There's no particular genre that I remain exclusive to. If I had to choose a favorite I would pick adventure classics, such as The Three Musketeers. I recently read Pride and Prejudice for the first time and really enjoyed it. Does that mean I have to turn in my man card?

I'm also a bit of a movie buff. I have more DVDs than I know what to do with anymore (I may have a problem). My favorite movies usually tend to be a bit quirky. I also really love cheesy, ridiculous b-movies. Unintentional humor may be the best humor.

For music, I'm not really good at naming genres and such so I'll just say my favorite bands I've discovered in the last year have been Queens of the Stone Age and Social Distortion. As you can see, I am literally decades behind the curve on discovering new music.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If I admitted something here, then it wouldn't be private anymore, would it?

You should message me if

What I am looking for, ultimately, is a real connection, but I don't think that is necessarily something that will come about in an instant. I'm more than willing to just have some fun and see where things lead. I like women who are smart, independent, and have a good sense of humor. So if this sounds like you, please do send me a message.