I keep my radio permanently tuned to NPR, or I listen to audio books downloaded onto my phone. My idea of an ideal evening is a long interesting conversation, in a quit-sh bar or coffee shop with people I've just met, or haven't seen in a long time.
So if you are looking for a guy that wants to talk a bit . . . at least to start, then I'm your guy. If you are looking for a quick hook up, I'm probably not. If you're looking for a soul mate right away, I'm probably not your guy either . . . I just want a human connection, however it comes, that can be what it is. That's all.