Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nerdy math teacher who just moved from Berkeley down to the
south bay and looking for some people to show me around. To be
upfront I want to say that I have a serious boyfriend and I'm poly.
This means we are ethically non-monogamous and open to loving
relationships with others. Please ask me about it :-)
To give a little more info, I am open to all different types of
relationships. If I meet someone and there is great relationship
potential I'd be interested in forming a relationship. If I meet
someone who is fun in bed but not really interested in romantically
then casual friends is fun too. If I meet a couple and I like both
of them I might date both of them. If I date someone who is also
interested in my partner we both might date this person. It's all
on the table with me.
I like adventures and doing new things. I want to meet someone who
is spontaneous, a little bit silly, and friendly. Someone who is
thoughtful but also fun. Likes to talk but doesn't dominate the
conversation. Outgoing but not full of him (or her) self. If you
ever have used the term bro or alpha male to describe yourself we
probably aren't a good match. I'm attracted to people and
personalities. Appearance is far less important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally finished school and now I'm working as a high school
teacher. I love my job and I always look forward to work in the
morning. I just wish work didn't start so early.
The remaining hours are spent blues dancing and baking. I'm also
looking for blues dancing friends and people who are willing to try
out the results of my baking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking about being poly. Really, I love to talk about it so ask
away. I've also been told I make a mean pumpkin waffle.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm smiling. I tend to smile a lot. Sometimes I worry it makes
me look goofy but my boyfriend says it's cute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You'll have to ask me out on a date and talk to me to figure out
the answer to this question :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world around me. I love to watch people and talk about types of
relationships. Specifically the non-monogamous type.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a thing for short guys. But tall guys are fun too :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please be poly. I'm really not interested in mono boys right now.
I'm actually pretty vanilla so if you are looking for kink or lots
of casual sex I'm not your girl.
You should message me if you read my profile. And you have
experience being poly. Even though I say this I know most of my
messages will be from mono people. It's also a plus if you are in a
relationship as I am very busy and can't be someone's main
But what should you say in your message you ask? To break the
tell me a story about you being poly
tell me your favorite thing about you
tell me your favorite food
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.