pumpkintab
50 Toronto, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
easygoing, fit, not an extrovert but neither am I shy (well maybe a little), love to laugh
admire simplicity, common sense, and most of all humour and creativity in any form
creature of habit: exercise 3x/week, take frequent long walks on the beach, like the anonymity of the city but like to be close to nature as well
-enjoy simple pleasures: connecting with nature, chatting, walking, laughing, joke telling, lucid dreaming, rustic cabins, thunderstorms, parlour games, full moons...
What I’m doing with my life
taking it one day at a time
I’m really good at
organizing, being on time, multitasking, altering recipes (not always for the better), note-taking, list making, thinking outside the box, wishing I were in the box, reflecting, engaging in sentimental and nostalgic thinking, living a healthy lifestyle, trusting my instincts
The first things people usually notice about me
nice contact lenses
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: classic 60s/70s rock , blues, motown/ r & b, reggae
Food: Indian, Greek
Movies: 30s/40s classics - any Bette Davis film, Gone With the Wind, Grapes of Wrath, Streetcar Named Desire, Of Mice and Men, Great Expectations, quirky/offbeat comedies like Napoleon Dynamite, Royal Tanenbaums (love documentaries also)
Comedians: Doug Stanhope, Bill Burr, Jon Mulaney, Bill Hicks, Carlin, Chris Rock, Lewis Black, CK Lewis...(many more)
Books: Tao Te Ching, On Walden Pond, Uncle Tom's Cabin, East of Eden, Man's Search for Meaning, Fall on Your Knees, Lord of the Flies, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, English classics (Dickens, Bronte, Austen, Eliot, Hardy***)
The six things I could never do without
regeneration, rearranging (music, words, furniture, priorities), reflexes, repetition, relaxing, the prefix re... AND
meditation, sun, water, words, solitude, touch, expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to fully inhabit the present moment so I can connect with others in a more meaningful way
On a typical Friday night I am
content to do absolutely nothing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
perhaps will reveal when my defenses are down
You should message me if
-you like to make people laugh, you're kindhearted and forgiving
-you are not impressed with or defined by material possessions

Note: not partial to the chat box thingy or texting - messages work best as it allows for a little more "processing" time (helps me avoid saying something that may be misinterpreted or that I may regret later) - not that that has ever happened :->
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