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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 19
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Polish (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
trees on the North side of the Charles River
turn yellow-red first; trees that bear apples
resemble apples and the water
is a city of steeples, until it is ice.

I'm a teacher, poet, activist. I'm wildly ambitious, patient, and charismatic.

I'm teaching First Year Seminar in a high school, college prep in Rikers Island, and Taekwondo in a few colleges around the area. I'm passionate about civil service, run a non profit fighting against hunger, and want to pursue a PhD in comparative linguistics.

a correctional officer once told me that she would never want to have my job; she'd never have the patience.

I have two cats -- one is a rescue (it was 10 degrees outside in February and she was shivering) and the other is her son (I've had him since he was born).
What I’m doing with my life
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I want to always teach.

Language is important to me, for so many reasons. So I'm in the process of learning Korean, then perhaps Polish, then German. I think the culmination is a PhD in comparative linguistics.

I'm trying to make the best of every hour, of every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I never imagined I'd become this kind of person but I use humor, a flash of smile, and a wink to defuse situations. It's hard to argue with someone when they're cute and smiling.

Once, I was sitting on a pier on the Charles River, making paper boats to float down the water. A stranger asked me about it and I showed her how to make one. Her response? "wow, you'd make a great teacher"
The first things people usually notice about me
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my biceps and my calves are sharply defined. I always get complimented on them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Poetry: Ferlinghetti, O'Hara, WCW, Milosz, Szymborska, etc
Fiction: Steinbeck, Jhumpa Lahiri, Jonathan Safran-Foer, etc

I've been reading tons of non fiction lately (Argo, Monuments Men, Greatest Generation, I am Malala). I think it's socially responsible to do.

Television: Rookie Blue, Flashpoint, Chicago Fire, Chicago PD
I watch a lot of police drama!

Movies / Music: Here's where I drop the pop culture ball. I mean, I do watch movies and I do listen to music, but ask me to rank them and I'll probably list them randomly. these things were just never important in my home, so I never really learned how to appreciate them.

Food: I love just about everything. Lately, I've been trying a mostly vegetarian diet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) the people and pets that are important to me
2) books, both to read from and write in
3) GPS, because honestly ...
4) a laptop to work on
5) a sport or martial art to soak up the extra energy
6) goals or projects to be passionate about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
paths to goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing ... something? I don't know.

if I have work to finish up, I'll be finishing up work. if a friend or family member wants to have dinner, I'll do that. if I skipped the gym too often that week, I'll hit the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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whatever you want to know, just ask
You should message me if
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you're attractive, intelligent, and motivated.
you have some appreciation of fine arts (theater, painting, sculpture, literature).