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40 M Mountain View, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 8
Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Ilongo (Poorly), French (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Librarian who completed his MM in bassoon performance at the San Francisco Conservatory of Music May 2002, and most recently his MLIS in May 2012. Likes cooking/good food, long walks, traveling, and sometimes just staying home with someone to cuddle up with. My life happens in an inimitatable, passionate, (and hopefully mostly) respectful manner.

I am vivacious, gracious, and devoted.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as librarian at one of many libraries at Stanford University.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
presence; conversation; perhaps my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(a) LC classification schedules; The book of totally useless information / Voorhees; most things culinary; biography/nonfiction

(b) Tampopo, Being John Malkovich, Toys (1992; Robin Williams et al.), Rocky Horror Picture Show, Shock Treatment, Triplets of Belleville

(c) JPop/KPop, Soft Pink Truth, Pussy Tourette, Abba, Señor Coconut, Information Society, BMK, Aretha Franklin, Nina Simone, Grace Jones, Diamanda Galás, Nina Simone, Laura Nyro

(d) Almost anything as long as its veggie (I do some seafood too)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
friends, query formulation for finding various knowns and unknowns via various information retrieval systems, new recipes, social justice, what to cook for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating something good
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love my hair
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you enjoy technical conversations that can switch back and forth between various domains of knowledge to culture and epicurean delights; snail mail is of great importance to you. Cuddling is a thing of beauty.