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28 Rochester, MI Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20
White, Other
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
When drinking
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi! My name is Phoebe. I.. don't really know what to say after that much... but... here I go to try, anyhow!
I'm looking for some good friends and someone to share my life with. I just got out of a 5 year relationship, so right now, I don't really want anything. I'm still trying to do some healing, so yes, I am talking to lots of people and I am doing some flirting. I don't really flirty too much any more, just because it seems I odd to me still at this point since the battle wounds have not healed.

Anyway, more about myself - I'm witty, kind of have a dirty mind, creative, well-read, well-spoken, well mannered, funny - meaning both funny "haha" -and- funny odd (it just depends on the mood i'm in), laid back, ambitieous, extrodinary, active, a good listener, and I've been told overall pretty interesting and fun to hang out with. I'm about 5'1" - yes... I am short, and I also don't weight alot. I'm about 130 lbs but medium-muscular build (I work out), a brunette, with brown-black eyes, and olive skin. I'm half portuguese and very proud of my portuguese heritage, and the other half of me is heinz 57 (a mish-mash of german, english, danish, alot of Norwegian, and just about everything else and somewhere in there is native american as well. I'm not really sure what tribe, though).

I like to eat everything. Fussy eaters beware, i will eat everything. If you are not adventurous, you will be, because I love food of all types and I will try anything 3 times. I don't really eat a whole lot of meat, I mostly eat alot of vegetables - green leafy vegetables, and alot of bread, pasta and yes - rice and beans. I love fish - I love coffee and tea. I like trying new types of cuisine - my absolute favorites are lebanonese, greek, thai, japanese, french, portuguese (of course!) and italian. I try to walk anyplace place if I can avoid driving in traffic or if it's not too cold outside. I do a lot of driving as well, though and I go all over the place, I like finding new areas and exploring them.

I'm really into anime, music, movies: all genres, fencing, yoga, swimming, soccer, and volley ball. I love soccer. I'm not really one for american football - unless we're playing it - and none of this "Touch" football b.s. Bring on the tackle! W00+! I love to cook, and I love to make and listen to music. I play a few instruments and sing as well. I play the violin, the viola, the guitar, the piano, and the clarinet. I love playing video games, i love dancing, and little home in the walls and those hidden little gems to eat, drink and be merry as well! I've recently gotten reallly interested in ballroom dancing and I'm almost a fanatic when it comes to the entire thing! I can speak almost flulent french and I'm working on learning my 3rd language, italian! (As you can tell I'm really into different cultures.)

I am optimistic, friendly, and goal-oriented, I have a job and a car, some one who loves animals and likes children. I don't have any but I want some some day and I expect anyone interested in me to have the same or want the same.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm the string repair technician at a music store. I also teach I'm in my sophomore year at a community college and I plan on doing a double major in business management and music performance when i go to a university. I'm only working on my associates right now and then I will be transferring to Wayne State next Fall semester. I got a new job working as a receptionist for a big company, and i really do enjoy the job! I'm definitely an extrovert and i love going out with people and having a good time. I also like to talk a lot... and by talk a lot i mean talk a lot about anything, including myself and just about every other subject i can think of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, playing the violin, playing the viola, learning to play instruments, speaking french, learning new languages, teaching people french phrases, teaching people to play instruments and take care of them, being helpful, making people laugh, and supposedly... -dancing- Although I'm not so sure about that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OH OH OH.. I have a direct quote... "Oh... wow... you seem to be alot taller than you really are." I'm SHORT, okay? 5'1"... It's NOT -that- tall. But I'm also very slender, and curvy.

Another thing alot of people notice are my eyes - they're black-brown. Heh.. and they supposedly change colors...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book? Ahh... I have many... Infact... I have many favorite authors: The Bronte Sisters (Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre), (Walden, Civil Disobedience) Thoreau, Emerson, (Anita Blake, Holly Black (Tithe), Neil Gaiman (Sandman, Stardust, & American Gods).

Movies: OH god... Yet again! TOO BROAD! I loved Casanova, Cinderella Man, The Producers, Take The Lead, Shaw Shank Redemption, Sleepy Hollow, The Brothers Grim , Fight Club, Secret Window, Interstellar5555, Underworld: Revolutions, Nanny McPhee, Serenity, X3, and Hoodwinked. I love ALMOST all movies with Jack Nicholson, Johnny Depp (of COURSE), Heath Ledger, Orlando Bloom, Antonia Banderas, Sandra Bullock, and... really... I love old movies, too! AND 80's movies... Say Anything, The Princess Bridge, The Breakfast Club, & Sixteen Candles. ...Basically.. I love movies... of all types.

Music : I listen to EVERYTHING and by everything... I MEAN -EVERYTHING-. I have SO many bands I like... so it's hard to even list them all, but I like alot of alternative stuff, like Muse, Oasis, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, RelientK, Hawethorne Heights, Fall Out Boy, All American Rejects, The Offspring, Rush, CAKE... um.. yeah the list goes on. I also really like alot of sort of folksy type artists like Ani Difranco, Phoebe Snow, Tracy Chapman (although I guess you could consider her R&B), Hell... I like just about anyone! I also really enjoy David Gray, Jack Johnson, (Yes) Ben Folds Stuff: I like practically everything! I even like some rap - I SAID SOME, NOT ALL...! I LOVE techno. I love UK Bands LIKE Muse, Oasis, and The Kooks. Basically.. i like everything.

Foods: I like Chinese, Lebonese, Portuguese, Italian, French, Thai, Japanese, ethnic food of ANY kind, and my absolute FAVORITE food is Lemon Rice Soup, souvlaki, and stuffed grape leave (the vegetarian/cold ones, the hot ones aren't so great)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's see... My wallet, My car keys/car, A pair of comfortable shoes, A comfortable pair of pants, My "Born To Rock" shirt, and my crappy lil' laptop!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. What to do with myself... what to do with my life.

How BADLY I neeeeeed to take a vacation and neeeed to get a life?

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping, out clubbing, doing homework, working, dancing, club-hopping, watching movies (at home or at the movie theater), or just chilling and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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...I am Jack's broken heart?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I seem... interesting? You KNOW i am.

DON'T IM me though if you're going to be openly snotty or cynical. I've dated far too many guys like that, and personally, the cynical jackasses are realllyy starting to get old.

I don't like overly optimistic people either - but i'll take them over the pessimists and narcissists of my everyday existance.

What else? OH...

DON'T im me if you CAN'T SPELL. It's one of my biggest pet peeves. I can handle typos. But not ALL the time, damnit. Learn to spell!