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32 San Diego, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 22
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly kosher
Judaism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My dreamboy:
Blue eyes.
Man that loves kids and will cook and clean.
Part time job on the weekends for his own spending money.
INFJ that is definitely introverted.
A guy that doesn't yell.
A guy that could love my kids.
A man with no addiction except sex and love.

I am a Messianic Jew.
I love is an excerpt from my journal:
Good morning I love you Jesus!!!!!!!!!!!! What great love you have for me! What earthly love could ever compare? I long to be with you. No earthly man would love his bride-to-be so deep that he would let her kill him just to prove his great love for her like you have. No love movie has written a script with love so selfless. Morbid lover, you forgave me for my sins and laid them on your own body. You were so beautiful until you let my sins wrinkle your body and pierce it with sadness. You became my beaten and cherished ragdoll toy that I still drag unknowingly through the dirt like a child. But I will hold you to my heart and love you back the best way I know how. You asked your Father to leave you in my dangerous hands even though you knew my love would fall short of his. You were so brave to tell our Father to forgive me that I didn't know what I was doing as I was murdering you with those stripes on your back and mocking you with that crown and that sign above your head. How could you possibly love me when my sins murder you still. Take me to be with you so I can't hurt you anymore in this sinful body. Try my heart with fire and make it as pure as yours. I'm not worthy but how can I resist a love so pure. Yes I will be your bride. Yes I will wait patiently til you take me home. I don't want to hurt you anymore. I repent.

You instruct wives in Proverbs 31:12 to do him (their husband) good and not evil all the days of her life, (meaning even before she meets him) and let me kill you. you laid your life down. you surrendered it into my hands. my hands were bloody and yet you said to me in Isaiah 1:18, "Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool" and you lead me like a little lamb. When I go astray you fight off the wolves and protect me and you don't beat me for the sin of my wandering. You hold me and cry like the prodigal's father just so happy I am back in your loving arms. I wait for you to yell, strike me, or abandon me but you "never leave me or forsake me" (Hebrews 13:5) "If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there" (Psalm 139:8).

You wept in the Garden of Gethsemane and asked your Father if there was any other way to prove your love to me ...but the only way I would believe you love me is if you let me kill you and suffered for my sins. Your Father left you because of the sins you endured for me and you were left alone with no love. Oh if only I could take it back and throw that whip to my accusers and take that punishment I rightfully deserved back onto my back to spare you, my love. If only the cross was not so heavy then maybe I would not fall as you did along the way and have a begrudging stranger help me on the path to my death. My spirit is willing but my flesh is weak.

Raise up a Hosea kind of man to love my adulterous heart or take me home so I can be with you and we will celebrate our 50th wedding aniversary in Heaven because if there is no man that will answer the call of my heart, I know you will, my dove eyed love.

Cheat Sheet for wooing me:
1. Stare at me to admire me.
2. Draw me.
3. Be affectionate with me. Like pull me into your lap when you are doing something.
4. Buy a little gift that makes you think of me.
5. Follow me around or ask me to follow you around to do things or to go to see friends or public places (and hold my hand if you want to) while I am silent while you talk to other people.
6. Call me several times a day just to say hello I am thinking of you even if you just get my machine.
7. Leave me little notes online about whatever even if it is just "hi beautiful".
8. Play with my hair.
9. Be my lab rat and take my personality tests. It makes me feel like we are best friends.
10. Laugh with me. Pick me up and be goofy with me and playful. Show me things that make you laugh.

I am always looking for a friend that will accept a dare like a dare to drink 8 glasses of water in one day...4 when they first get up and then the other 4 throughout the day. I like conquering goals together.

I take care of my health. I love cuddles. I was sleeping in for a long time and I guess I felt guilty about it because when my friend tried to wake me up and complained about me sleeping in, I said, "I'm not sleepin'! I just can't see!" I dance to the music in each store at the mall like Balou in the Jungle Book. I am perfectly content laying in a hammock enjoying the heat of the day and cuddling with my love.I also like yoga (but it makes me laugh in my head). I love reading Shampoo/ Conditioner bottles!
(I guess I just like being sweet talked and those descriptions are like wow! really? lie to me again! i like it!) and cereal boxes (what? you know you read them too! heh)

Religion: Karaite Jew and Charismatic Christian
Compatible Matches: INFJ
Cognitive Functions: Fi, Ne, Ti, Si, Fe, Te, Ni, Se -or- Ne, Fi, Ti, Si, Te, Ni, Fe, Se
Global 5: sloan SLUAI; sloan+ SlUA|I|; primary Inquisitive; S(64%)L(64%)U(80%)A(78%)I(90%).
Enneagram Triptype: Heart: 4w5. Head: 5w4. Body: 9w8. The Bohemian.
Variant: sx sp so.
Archetype: 459 The Contemplative Archetype -aka-The Introvert.
Bloodtype: B+
Genotype: Nomad.
Stellium: Libra.
Intelligences:Inter/Intrapersonal & Visual Spatial.
My Music Preferences: Romantic, Relaxing, Inspiring, Electrical, Intelligent, Sad, Instrumental, Distorted, Complex, Percussive, Dense, Tempo, Loud, Aggressive.
Signal Pattern Personality: Passionate, Aesthetic, Competent, Intellectual, Original, Curious, Innovative, Creative, Cooperative, Tender.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting a job with my masters degree. My latet obsession is personality profiling. For example, the variant test...
This test tells you your variant for your personality. Everyone is all 3 results just in a different order. The results are Social, Withdrawn, and Sexual. Social means you enjoy being playful and having fun. It doesn't mean you are extroverted. Withdrawn means you act like a hermit sometimes and prefer to be alone. Sexual actually doesn't have to do with sex. It means that you are intense, passionate, and intimate with others. If you are social first then you probably prefer to hang out in a group of people often. If you are withdrawn first then you probably prefer to spend at least 5 consecutive days alone. If you are sexual first then you probably have trouble with smalltalk and end up getting complaints from others about being too deep and thinking too deeply into things. Or you are told that you want to interact one on one too much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing and sociology/psychology.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My animated eyes. I have been told my kisses are the sex too. When I fall for a guy, I fall hard I stand by them through thick and then. I would be the last one to give up on him.

Some say I look like Jennifer Decker from Flyboys as Lucienne.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Flower: Orchid, Stargazer Lily, and Honeysuckles

Candy: White Chocolate, Necco candy wafers.

Colors: Purple, Blue, and Red together.

Jewelry: Mood rings, Claddagh rings, Victorian antique garnet rings, heart shaped gemstone rings, and a heart shaped locket.

Comedians: Steve Oedekerk, Tim Hawkins, Brian Regan, Ross Noble, Rowan Atkinson, Zach Braff, Desi and Lucille, Bill Cosby, Chevy Chase, Billy Crystal, Dane Cook, Steve Martin, John Candy, Steve Carell, Jon Heder, The Three Stooges, Gene Kelly, Buster Keaton, Jack Black, Justin Bartha, Colin Mochrie,

Geniuses: Linus Pauling, Nicola Tesla

Books: The Tanakh, 1984, White Oleander, A Moveable Feast by Hemmingway, Cannery Row, The Sun Also Rises, The Giver, and Masterpieces of Terror and the Supernatural.

The Book "White Oleander" by Janet Fitch Quotes:
"We stared out at the city that hummed and glittered like a computer chip deep in some unknowable machine, holding its secret like a poker hand." p.1
"Her beauty was like the edge of a very sharp knife.""... watching the blue of the evening turn velvet then indigo, lingering like an unspoken hope.""So often when I was with her she was unreachable. Whenever she turned her steep focus to me I felt the warmth flowers must feel when they bloom through the snow, under the first concentrated rays of the sun.

Emo/Hardcore/Punk: Burden of A Day, Ed Sheeran, Passenger, Ron Pope, Guster, One Republic, The Kooks, Matthew Perryman Jones, One Night Only, Brooke Waggoner, Paramore, Jimmy Eat World, One Less Reason, The Airborne Toxic Event, Cartel, This Providence, Falling in Reverse, Boys Like Girls, Hawthorne Heights, The Prodigy, Andrew McMahon, Listener, The Ready Set, Falling Up, A Rocket to The Moon, Owl City, The Story So Far, Alesana, The Lumineers, Imagine Dragons, Senses Fail, Memphis May Fire, Of Machines, Train, Local H, Brand New, Our Lady Peace, The Troggs, Blue Foundation, The Killers, Before Their Eyes, Chiodos, Emarosa, Abandon All Ships, Bless The Fall, The Word Alive, Hands Like Houses, Bright Eyes, Red, Sleeping with Sirens, The All American Rejects, We Came As Romans, Dave Days, Muse, Radical Face, Lana Del Ray, Iron and Wine, The Katinas, Earlimart, Augustana, 16 Frames, The Offspring, Violent Femmes, Aqualung, Silverstein, You Me and Apollo, Hot Chelle Rae, Tenth Avenue North, Say Anything

Dubstep: Flobots, Skrillex

Rock: Paula Cole, No Doubt, The Cranberries, Meredith Brooks, Shiny Toy Guns, Barlow Girl, Care Bears on Fire, The Gorillaz, A Perfect Circle, Evanescence, Shpongle, Gin Blossoms, Stevie Ray Vaughn, 311, Sublime, The Smashing Pumpkins, MIKA, Pink Floyd, Death Cab For Cutie, The Postal Service, Oasis, The Cure, Incubus, Daft Punk, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Audioslave, Chris Cornell, Soundgarden, Kings of Leon, Imogene Heap

Blues: Jonny Lang,

R&B: Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey, All For One, Ray J, Tyrese, Jagged Edge, Miguel, Frankie J, Mario, Michael Jackson, Chris Brown, Rihanna, Usher, Drake, Jeremih, Colby O'Donis, NeYo, Musiq Soulchild, Boys II Men, Lil Wayne, Eric Benet, Jill Scott, K-Ci and JoJo, Kriss Kross, Trey Songz...

Rap: Bone Thugs and Harmony...

Lovey or Sexual Songs: Jesse McCartney, Lee Ryan, Kings of Leon, Kelly Clarkson, Frank Ocean, Bryan Adams, A Day To Remember, Thomas Rhett, Charlie Worsham, etc...

Sitcoms: Almost Human, Scrubs, Kyle XY, Glee, How I Met Your Mother

Of all time...I have two... Shallow Hal and Dinner for Schumucks!!!

Limitless, Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure, Anchorman, Wanderlust, My Idiot Brother, Gattaca, Oblivion, Benchwarmers, The Basketball Diaries, Speed, Equilibrium, The Island, The Last Mimzy, The Host, Idiocracy, Race to Witch Mountain, Great Expectations, Message in a Bottle, The Matrix Trilogy, Total Recall, A Walk to Remember, The Doors, Walk the Line, Almost Famous, Demolition Man, Silver Linings Playbook, The Speed of Thought, Minority Report, Twilight, Titanic, Baz Luhrmann's Romeo and Juliet, The Notebook, Chunhyang-korean love story, and Stardust.

Horror: Hate it.

Action: ? not sure here...give me a break I am a girl.

Suspense: All of them but only once or it isn't suspense.

Actors: Jack Black, Robin Williams, Leonardo Dicaprio, Channing Tatum, Patrick Swayze...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. G-d
2.3.My two daughter's souls even though they came early...they were always supposed to be here and my soulmate will be their soul-daddy. (I was married for 6 years.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personality and compatibility theory, Messianic Judaism, and health topics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home. but I would go out if I had a sitter and someone to go out with...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like those that can cook, dance, and wear skater shoes. Break dancing or ballroom. My manicurist gives the best arm, hand, and shoulder massages and I think every boyfriend should know how to do that too. :P I love smelling honeysuckle flowers, stargazer lilies, jasmine, and orchids.
You should message me if
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I want to be a man's only cigarettes, no beer, no pills...just me. It's gonna take a man that is willing to be strong enough to feel pain without going to self medicate with another addiction other than me...a real fighter...not a coward.

Here is my dream house?:

Give me the results to this test and we will have a conversation as soon as I get your message. I LOVE to analyze people.

Message me if you want a best friend.