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31 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 15
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Have you ever built a fire?
I'm a big stack of dry wood. If you burn hot enough and close enough I might catch. And you can have a piece of me if I can be a part of your flame!

I am compassionate, gentle and strong, and I am confident enough to say that about myself.

I really like meeting new people. I have a long history of romantic relationships with varying records of success, commitment and time... I have come to the conclusion that at this point in my life I just need really good friends and good sex partners. If you might fit into either or both of those categories... great!

*note* I identify as polyamorous even though I am currently single... I am not currently interested in a monogamous relationship. If that isn't your cup of tea, we can still be friends (yes... I am actually looking for new friends)
What I’m doing with my life
I want to be a better person and to make the world a better place and I'm working really hard to figure out how to do that.
I’m really good at
playing music,
I'm NOT good at dancing, but I love it!
procrastinating on okcupid
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm authentic. I am a bad actor and an open book.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm debating weather to start watching breaking bad... I know I will be addicted if I start. Other shows I have consumed like a junkie: True Blood, Six Feet Under, Deadwood, Carnival, Parks and Recreation, Masters of Sex.
I play irish fiddle and folksy stuff on my guitar. I love any kind of music that makes me dance.
Here is a link to my youtube page... listen to shady grove or banjo ditty... the more recent ones are really crappy video quality:

I love good food (almost as much as good company) I like good beer and whiskey. I make a really good chilli.

I'm looking for reading recommendations.
The six things I could never do without
Musical Instruments
Good Beer
Meaningful work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nursing (I'm studying to be a nurse), Sex/sexuality, adventures I want to have, Music, Kink, Logistics of life, food I want to cook.
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe at a party, maybe snuggled up watching movies... sometimes going to bed early. (I know lame right?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit to nothing! I didn't do it I swear!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 22–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Don't message me "how's it going" or something similar.
If you have read this far and you think we might have a connection, write me a message and tell me what you think that might be, and tell me about you. I want to know you after all : )