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54 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:16pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hello you. Hmmm. how to sum up myself and my search for connection and, yes, love, in a clever, yet poetic, series of pithy, witty sentences?

Well I'm not going to try for wit ... just a little information, so, here goes ... I'm a quick-thinking person with a sense of humor who's sometimes a little wild. I grew up in Europe, have lived in NY, SF, Hawaii and now LA for the last couple of years. I'm a teacher at the university level.

I have taken a varied path through my life that has brought me a lot of joy, some pain and hasn't been boring at all!

I'm also a romantic and passionate person. I do like to talk a lot! ... and of course, I'm human, so I love to kiss and touch and be warm and cuddle and lose myself, or have us lose ourselves, in the moment(s).
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching, writing, thinking, reading and walking. Trying to laugh at irony, smile at life and sunshine and, well, looking for connection ... just like you, probably!
I’m really good at
Teaching, laughing, talking, interacting, dancing and watching movies! I am passionate about things. I'm good at feeling! I listen to and care about people. I care a great deal about fairness and honesty. I like to laugh and make people laugh, but I'm not sure if I'd say I was good at it ... I hope I'm good at it because its an essential part of life.

I'm intellectual and value ideas. I am good at creative thinking in academic environments. This feels like a cover letter for a job application! I'm good at being myself, I will share whatever else when/if you (reading this) and I write or meet. What can I say?
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, this is difficult to answer. They are other people, after all. Perhaps, they notice that I talk quickly and animatedly? I hope they see acceptance, openness, and courage. Energy?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books, too many movies... Film is a great medium. Ok, here's a few favorites ... low taste and high taste: The Matrix, Cloud Atlas, Tree of Life, The Long Kiss Goodnight, Point Break, Gosford Park, Django Unchained, A Serious Man, Pulp Fiction, Volver, The Royal Tannenbaums. Pina, Bladerunner, The Fifth Element ....

I, actually, love all kinds of music and I write some, too ... its the different songs or pieces that move me. From the Dead to hip hop; classical, opera, old time rock, new age, music from all over the world.

I love thrillers and Shakespeare; poetry, literature, theory, Robert Ludlum novels (he has the unique, perhaps, distinction of having published as much after he died as before!). I loved Neville's The Eight and The Magic Circle. I'm kind of a sucker for historical thrillers with codes, I guess.

As for food, I've lived many places and tried all kinds of food. And although I appreciate a good cook as a true artist, I am not one. It's all good. It's just food.
The six things I could never do without
the sun
digital media
air, food, shelter (of course)
hmmmn my work
sex ... (I can do without it, but I don't want to!)
and yes, I can count ... I just don't feel like it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make a great class. Why people learn language. How to play guitar. The different writing projects I've been working and not working on.

How to materialize the perfect person out of time and space so that I can meet him :)!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I write poetry and I send poems to people--sometimes philosophical and sometimes sensual.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to--why else?