Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Better to describe me as solo poly at the moment, than as
Let's get out and bike, and turn over car culture and sprawl. I am
an atheist, proud and simple. Not a nun-hating religious trauma
case, but a simple atheist. I'm also liberal and vote (D)
consistently. I need more book readers in my life, and desire to be
a book reader in theirs.
I'm a feminist, and I love feminist women.
--an expansion on that theme: social justice--
I am an intersectional feminist. Feminism is the central plank of
my social justice beliefs, and I believe it is a useful model that
can be expanded to fit most social justice concerns. I am also
informed by preference utilitarianism, as well Rawls beliefs about
I am anti-racist, support gay rights, as well as stronger
recognition and support for asexual and non-monogamous
Oh, and I am on the as autism spectrum, found out at age 38.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pivoting from atheist activism to autistic self-advocacy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bending simple code to my aims. Leveraging tedium. Obsessing over
parmesan ice cream.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can be into ideas. A lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I tend to avoid having favorites, but I'll do what I can. Usually
my feelings about things sufficiently interesting to engage me are
too multidimensional for single-axis rankings.
_Blindsight_, Peter Watts
is really firing at the top of his game these
wrote The Gone-Away World which is a must
The short works of Fritz Leiber are also really good, as I've been
rediscovering of late. Space-Time for Springers!! All hail the
sacrifice of Gummitch.
, Karl Schroeder
, Daryl Gregory
, Ted Chiang
Henry Fool, Hal
(There's no art there, only one of the best-crafted
action movies, along with Predator.)
Children of Men, Alfonso Cuaron -- I saw this in a free preview and
really enjoyed it a lot. Enough that I could stand to see it
Saga of the Lime: A Scurvy-free Viking Saga as told to Chad Vader
, classic rock
, Le Tigre
, film score
, Bear McCreary
, Jerry Goldsmith
, Keren Ann
, Regina Spektor
, Yeah Yeah Yeahs
, The Knife
, The Blow
, Alice in Videoland
, You Say Party, We
I saw Fiona Apple when she was in town at Lincoln Hall... it
Yellow curry chicken people. Oh yeah.
, The Office
, The Wire
, Blake's 7
, Game of Thrones
, Doctor Who
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer. My cat. Some subset of humanity that's non-evil.
Books. Liberals. Poultry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics and ethics dominate.
Why is Squirt so much more lemon-limey than other lemon-lime
beverages? (Update, because it is grapefruit, silly!)
Why people choose to queue in everyday situations in the ways they
How do we decide how committed we are to the letter of the
Please, where can I find Zagnut
bars in the wild?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably out with friends, maybe getting an outing together. I
could be catching up with Netflix if nothing else is up.
Sometimes, however, my cat sends me on secret missions. I can't
tell you about them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I default to assuming all relationships start from polyamorous
settings. Negotiations regarding specifics start from this frame.
Broadly, I am sympathetic to concerns that exclusivity assumptions
are unfortunately propertarian.
Feel free to ask me any questions you might have.
You should message me if
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You want me to take you to a museum. You want to take me to a
museum. You want to read books together, or shop for books
You want to chillax with my cat and I.
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