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38 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:21pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Let's get out and bike, and turn over car culture and sprawl. I am an atheist, proud and simple. Not a nun-hating religious trauma case, but a simple atheist. I'm also liberal and vote (D) consistently. I need more book readers in my life, and desire to be a book reader in theirs.

I'm a feminist, and I love feminist women.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the bowels of a large academic research library. I am increasingly moving into the world of atheist activism. Eventually I hope we can improve the quality of public policy and personal self-actualization by marginalizing non-rational beliefs.
I’m really good at
Bending simple code to my aims. Leveraging tedium. Obsessing over parmesan ice cream.
The first things people usually notice about me

I can be into ideas. A lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to avoid having favorites, but I'll do what I can. Usually my feelings about things sufficiently interesting to engage me are too multidimensional for single-axis rankings.

_Distress_, Greg Egan
_Blindsight_, Peter Watts
Alastair Reynolds is really firing at the top of his game these days.
Nick Harkaway wrote The Gone-Away World which is a must
The short works of Fritz Leiber are also really good, as I've been rediscovering of late. Space-Time for Springers!! All hail the sacrifice of Gummitch.
R. Scott Bakker, Karl Schroeder, Daryl Gregory, Ted Chiang and many more...

Henry Fool, Hal Hartley
Aliens, James Cameron (There's no art there, only one of the best-crafted action movies, along with Predator.)
Children of Men, Alfonso Cuaron -- I saw this in a free preview and really enjoyed it a lot. Enough that I could stand to see it again.
Saga of the Lime: A Scurvy-free Viking Saga as told to Chad Vader

Talking Heads, Fiona Apple, Tom Petty, classic rock, Le Tigre, Annie, film score, Bear McCreary, Jerry Goldsmith, Garbage, KMFDM, Keren Ann, Regina Spektor, Cake, Collide, Metric, Jakalope, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The Knife, The Blow, Alice in Videoland, The Dresden Dolls, You Say Party, We Say Die!, KUDU, Emilie Simon, Santogold, Electracult, My First Earthquake, Lovers

I saw Fiona Apple when she was in town at Lincoln Hall... it rocked.

Yellow curry chicken people. Oh yeah.


Battlestar Galactica, Veronica Mars, Deadwood, The Office, The Wire, Rome, Blake's 7, Game of Thrones, Community, Doctor Who, Inspector Spacetime
The six things I could never do without
My computer. My cat. Some subset of humanity that's non-evil. Books. Liberals. Poultry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics and ethics dominate.

Why is Squirt so much more lemon-limey than other lemon-lime beverages? (Update, because it is grapefruit, silly!)

Why people choose to queue in everyday situations in the ways they do.

How do we decide how committed we are to the letter of the law?

Please, where can I find Zagnut bars in the wild?
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out with friends, maybe getting an outing together. I could be catching up with Netflix if nothing else is up.

Sometimes, however, my cat sends me on secret missions. I can't tell you about them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will consider both monogamous and polyamorous relationship options. The latter only in the absence of the former. This represents something of a policy shift arising from more experience.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want me to take you to a museum. You want to take me to a museum. You want to read books together, or shop for books together.

You want to chillax with my cat and I.