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23 Scarsdale, NY Non-binary, Transmasculine, Agender, Genderfluid, Other

Non-binary, Transmasculine, Agender, Genderfluid, Other

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 25
Queer, Pansexual
5' 6" (1.67m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Turkish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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jessie, sometimes spelled jesse! (both are fine!)

i really like hugs!

queer queer queeeeeeer, vaguely transmasculine but mostly non-binary probably? occasionally fluid a bit? labels are weird and i'm hesitant to try and distill my entire person into a few words, but i suppose for the sake of an internet profile thing they're helpful enough. :P i'm not super picky with pronouns but most often go by my name or they/them/their.

i have a tendency to meow spontaneously.

i mostly just use OKC to procrastinate by answering endless questions or taking tests, so my profile is in a constant state of revision and may or may not be completely accurate since i'm currently going through a lot of Big Life Changes™ (pretty sure i will always be a HUGE QUEER LOSER NERD though so like... if that's your demographic...)
What I’m doing with my life
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recently graduated from wesleyan university in connecticut and am currently trying to scrounge up enough money from my restaurant job to move out of my parents' house and maybe get surgery. the post-grad life. i spend most of the rest of my free time sleeping or drawing or sometimes crying a lot
I’m really good at
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drawing i guess?? i also do a pretty good pikachu impression. and cats. i like to pretend to sing sometimes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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mushishi sustains me tbh. i'm also really into hunter x hunter these days.

i work at a sushi restaurant which you'd think would make me sick of sushi but really it just means that i have to stare at sushi all day without actually eating it so i am in a constant state of craving sushi please buy me sushi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hugs and friends to hugs!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to plan my schedule around my love live LP bar
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i get really invested in fictional characters

i also have a pretty big thing for gore/violence?? it is maybe a bit unfortunate. (though super negotiable so don't let it stop you probably??? idek)

i'm a pastor's kid and was raised evangelical protestant so while i no longer identify as christian, i have a sort of complicated relationship with religion uhhhh

i guess these are private sort of?? though i actually really like talking about them because i think they're kind of interesting, haha. i'm pretty open about almost everything, i think, so feel free to ask whatever you want!
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um or y'know if we otherwise match well and you want to chat/hang out/get to know each other! :D i'm mostly just looking for friends right now but i'm open to whatever. i really like meeting new people in general.