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Jia-ni

58 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:12am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have been very lucky in my life to have been born into a loving and supportive family. I have also been fortunate in making friends with some exciting and intellectually stimulating people. I think that my friends and family would say they enjoy my company for my humor, generosity and compassion. In my free time, I enjoy most types of music, as well as theater, film, golf, and working out. I especially enjoy travel to places that I have not been to before, where I can participate in activities and dining experiences that I have not previously tried.
I am interested in a long-term relationship. My ideal mate has high self-esteem. She loves her life and values the experiences that she has had, and seeks an intelligent and enthusiastic companion to share life's adventures. She also has a good sense of balance to her life. She works hard, but also leaves time for herself to work out and enjoy her own pursuits outside of the workplace. She's honest, intelligent, energetic and has a good sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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Celebrating it!
I’m really good at
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non-linear thinking tasks. I tend to see things in no particular order. Poetry, music, anagrams, game theory and chaos theory.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I'm better looking in person than I am in real life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sorry, no long lists of obscure artistic references.
I approach the arts, literature, film, theater, music and cuisines as subjects that have histories that are worthy of a broad overview and appreciation. The emphasis is not on "what I like best", but rather, "How does this fit into the history of this category?"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think that I can actually learn to adapt to most situations, but I would prefer not to be without laughter, good friends, sunshine, travel, music, and hope for the future.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
human nature, mechanistic political restructuring, and my golf swing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Every day of my life, I am. Freedom is consciousness.
As Sartre said, "Simone, I agree that this Pauillac is great, but I just don't think it works well with these tacos."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is nothing. It takes weeks of waterboarding me, just to get my choice of salad dressing.
You should message me if
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you are not a procrastinator. If you are, then you can message me tomorrow.