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quandtulis

27 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:32pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
Body Type
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Current life dictates that I am not allowed to have fun... a busy busy bee!

Otherwise, I do a lot of walking around and staring at architecture, daydreaming about adventures, desiring to learn 'everything, 'and fantasizing about spatial construction.

Will fill this out later (guess I've been saying that for a while.)

Gender Shmender.

Friendship is the best kind of ship.
What I’m doing with my life
A lot of work, a little play, constant state of daydreaming.

Kicking arse and taking vitamins.

Nesting. Learning. Evolving.

Attempting to master the art of diminishing my possessions so as to fit them all into a walnut shell.
I’m really good at
doing dishes.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hugs.

Supposed oxymorons ("You have hippie qualities, are super serious about cleanliness, and don't smoke pot? You're eccentric yet diplomatic? You don't identify as a gender, yet often present within the binary? Etc." Hurray for smashing assumptions!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh don't get me started. Or do. One of those.

I wouldn't know where to start or finish, so for now "Please accept from me this unpretentious bouquet of very early-blooming parentheses: (((())))."
The six things I could never do without
Sleep, water, cleanliness, vegan nutrients, tea, animals, art in all forms (music, literature, poetry, painting, crafting, performance, on and on and on,) good souls (friends,) and the "6th" can be some amalgamation of everything else I supposedly can't do without.
["There are three types of people in this world: those who can count, and those who can't."]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Coincidences; daydreaming about "saving" the world; becoming a nomad or nesting; books; academia in theory and practice; things I am trying to get up and do instead of just think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Rooting for the underdog.
Catching up on lost sleep.
"No such thing as typicality" etc etc etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a bad habit of giving myself hideous haircuts.

To clarify the Gender Shmender part up there:
Like most social networking sites, forms, things with checkboxes, and so forth, this website fails to provide proper options and really everything needs a write-in. There are many ways in which I am traditional, and many ways in which I am not. So replace that "F" for "Female" up there with Gender-Neutral, the "Bisexual" with Indiscriminate, and the Relationship Status answer with "Not Applicable." If you have questions about all this, please feel free to ask—even, if not especially, if these are new concepts to you. I just ask that you please don't pigeon hole me or others into stereotypes/assumptions/etc about what kind of person identifies as such.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You're, for example, an eighty year old gay man who would like to accompany me to the opera.
- You're genuinely interested in friendship.
- You care to partake in some vegan cake. (You don't have to be vegan, I don't proselytize, I just bake.)
- You're rich with no where to throw your money and thus want to fund my education...in exchange for...chocolate cake and poems/obnoxiously academic jargon-filled essays. That's all I got. But I promise once I get an education, I will be able to make an informed contribution to social justice, health-related, and resource-distribution movements! At the very least, I can contribute by scrubbing toilets at shelters and safe houses, and I'd say that's a pretty darn important contribution, with or without a fancy degree.
- You want to be in on various community organizing that I am part of (events for fun, for charity, for whatever.)
- You have a band I can sing badly in.
- You are familiar with the concept of solopoly.
- You want to help me out with silly blog projects by i.e. taking pictures in thrifted clothes.
- You want to go on fake dates.
- You feel like it. (But that doesn't give permission for tomfoolery!)

p.s. : http://xkcd.com/761/ (don't forget to read the scroll-over text)