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26 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 16
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm in an open relationship, though I haven't really done much about it thus far. In my case that means my schedule will be a little limited and I'm not really looking for another serious romantic partner.

Oh, also, these pictures are two or three years old now. My hair is a lot longer, I wear glasses now (actually I look a lot better with them than without) and I'm about twenty pounds heavier.

I'm wiccan/neopagan in a kind of lazy half-assed way. I'm happy to discuss or explain it, if you're curious. I'm not interested in defending, justifying or excusing it.

I encompass a lot of opposites. I can be optimistic bordering on naive or flatly cynical, deeply emotionally affected by what's going on around me or focused and distant, head-in-the-clouds dreamy or ruthlessly pragmatic, all within the same day. Once I've decided on a goal I will charge after it, though I do frequently get tangled and turned around in all of the options and possibilities. I'm working to streamline that process as much as possible.

I like learning things, especially about people and the way they think and communicate. My fascination with languages is what led me (through a long, annoying route) to my current academic goal...which feels like it's taking for EVER. I'm not the most patient person.

Change has been a constant factor in my life, and I now actively court it, getting bored if things stay too much the same for too long. I usually find shaking my life up with a change of scenery or activity keeps me from getting too antsy.

In the realm of things that are easier to make casual conversation about, I'm into books (especially fantasy and sci fi), music (though my knowledge of the music scene itself is actually kind of lacking), anime and video games.
What I’m doing with my life
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I sing, play guitar and write songs I have a youtube channel where I sometimes record and upload these songs. That aspect of my life is currently on the back-burner while I finish my degree (currently French Studies, hopefully Translation starting next year.)

Working at a few odd jobs, at least til the end of the school year.

Starting to date again, but super casually. Mostly I'd just like to meet some new people and make some new friends, but if we like each other more than that, groovy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, dancing, reading really fast, talking even faster, making animal noises, getting distracted, focusing really intently, getting to the point, being a hard-ass when needed, going from the point into outer frigging space, swearing at unfortunate moments, listening, cuddling, knowing when something's wrong, injuring myself and then having no idea how I did it, losing my glasses.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my username is easy to misread.

Honestly, I have no idea. Possibly my height (er, lack of), or the fact that I'm singing, out loud, possibly while rocking out, as I walk down the street. Also, I have an assortment of awesome hats. Or it might be my shaggy Ukrainian eyebrows.

I have been told I'm intimidating. I'm not sure whether that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything written by Lois McMaster Bujold or Terry Pratchett, Kage Baker, Kate Griffin, Douglas Adams, Spider Robinson and the Strangers in Paradise graphic novels/comics/whatever. I read a lot of science fiction and fantasy from the library, chosen on the basis of "this looks cool."

I'm not that into movies but I like watching them with people. A few that spring to mind include anything by Mel Brooks, The Lego Movie (shut up), Columbiana, The Road to El Dorado, The Mummy (1 and 2, the third one was awful, and not in a campy funny way), and Batman: The Movie (The 1966 one with Adam West. Seriously, it's hilarious.) I do follow a few tv shows, particularly Sherlock and Doctor Who, and I'm working my way through Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood and Deathnote. My favourite anime is probably still Escaflowne though, probably at least partially due to nostalgia. Which is also the reason I have a soft spot for Xena: Warrior Princess and The Muppets.

I like a lot of music, but here's the short list. Sarah Slean (want to be her so badly), Janelle Monae, Amanda Palmer, Melissa Kaplan (currently doing the "Universal Hall Pass" project, in case you want to look her up, previously of a band called Splashdown), The Pink Spiders, the Danger Bees, Prozzac, Imogen Heap, Brody Dalle (both in The Distillers and Spinnerette), Die Mannequin, the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, the Barenaked Ladies, La Roux, the Offspring, Deirdre Flint, Metric, Bif Naked, and pretty much any drinking song. I also love musicals, my favourite being Cabaret.

Just realized I missed my internet music favourites: Jonathan Coulton, Paul and Storm and Sweetafton23 (aka Molly Lewis). The best kind of comedy, slightly dirty, slightly depressing and/or slightly disturbing ^^

Favourite food would be either butter chicken or pad thai, depending on my mood.

There isn't a category for it, but I'm going to list my top games and game series anyway: Prince of Persia: Sands of Time and 3D (yes, I actually liked PoP 3D), Knights of the Old Republic (one and two), Zelda (ocarina of time, then majora's mask, then oracle of ages/seasons, then link's awakening), Myst (Exile being my favourite, but I love all of them except Uru which I never played) and World of Warcraft. Oh, and Day of the Tentacle (not what it sounds like), both Portal games and Tomb Raider (all the ones I've played anyway, I actually like the new one.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Words, in all their many fascinating forms, music, new information and experiences, a few solid people I can count on, occasional time away from everyone else, something useful to do.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
School, what the hell I'm doing with my life, music, work, sex, gender, abstract ideas and ideals, how to fix all kinds of things from myself to the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't think I've had a typical friday night in five years. I'm probably playing music, or out drinking, or at home drinking, or watching tv, or playing WoW, quite probably hanging out with my boyfriend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Been dealing with some emotional/psychological and financial stuff lately, which is why I haven't been super friendly on here. You've gotta like yourself before you can start forming healthy new relationships, ya know?
You should message me if
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You don't find me scary or boring, you do find me attractive or interesting, you want to meet up at some point and swap stories or ideas, then see where things go from there.

You actually read, like...any of my profile. I know it's long and I won't be offended if you haven't read all of it, but...just as a for instance, if you answered "yes" to homosexuality being a sin and "no" to open or poly relationships....chances are I'm not the one for you.

You should absolutely message me if there's this event or activity you've been wanting to do and you'd like company.

If sparks don't exactly fly, no worries. I like meeting new people.