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queenoftatters

27 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:31pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Status
Open relationship
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Disclaimers: The pictures are old, I have long hair, glasses (which actually look a lot better) and about 20 pounds on that girl in the picture.

I have a boyfriend, we are open leaning toward poly and we live together, so I'm not really looking for another primary partner, but a relationship is a possibility.

That being said, I think I'm naturally inclined towards one serious romantic relationship with some casual dating on the side. Full-on poly with multiple relationships is difficult for me, and probably not a setting I want to stick with in the long term.

Ok, the boring part's done. So what should you know about me....

When trying to figure out which animals we would be, my boyfriend and I concluded that I am a corgi. Small, very excitable, and capable of bossing around creatures three times my size.

I am the queen of the wallflowers. Shy, awkward, terrified of people and at the same time incredibly loud and enthusiastic bordering on manic in social situations.

I'm soft-hearted and hard-headed. If I'm kicking your ass, it's for your own good. I'll do just about anything for a friend and if you hurt someone I care about I will never forgive you.

I am polite to everyone until they give me reason not to be. Many people confuse this with being a nice person. They are often disappointed.

I respond to familiarity from strangers (pet names, touching, extremely personal questions) with wariness and annoyance. Friendly is good. "Hey sweetheart, what's you favourite position?" is not.

I am very in tune with my sexuality and in general I find sexual expression an interesting subject. I still keep some things private, though, to be shared when and with whom I choose.

Sometimes I wish people would decide whether I'm a slut because I meet a lot of people I want to sleep with or a prude for not wanting to sleep with anyone who asks.

I am an open and determined feminist. This means I am very invested in positive change in the status of women within my community and the world, and also that I think gendered expectations of both men and women are bullshit. It does not mean I think women are better than men, because "which gender is better?" is a fucking stupid question.

I swear a lot.

I find people fascinating and terrifying and as often as not completely incomprehensible. Myself included.

I would rather read the book than watch the movie.

I like a lot of nerdy shit.

Change is a constant force in my life. I need to always be trying new things, meeting new people, and learning. That being said, I don't like surprises much.

I organize obsessively, but not compulsively. You wouldn't know it, looking at my bedroom floor.

I'm a wiccan/neo-pagan/whatever, pretty much solitary which means I can do everything how I please. It may not be my most logical choice, but it is a comfort to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I sing, play guitar and write songs. I have a youtube channel http://www.youtube.com/user/MsFeyCreature/ where I sometimes record and upload these songs. That aspect of my life is currently on the back-burner while I finish my degree (French Studies, should be done by next fall.)

Playing video games. Badly.

Playing Magic: the Gathering. Badly.

Practicing with my band, the Dial-Up Raiders. Coming soon to a venue near you!

Hopefully going back to my old job transcribing legal stuff.

LARPing (yep, I'm one of those people.) I play Elegy, which is post-apocalyptic with a bunch of soft-science fiction shit thrown in. Suuuper fun. Lots of screaming and swearing.

Starting to date again, which is weird.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, dancing, reading really fast, talking even faster, making animal noises, getting distracted, focusing really intently, getting to the point, being a hard-ass when needed, going from the point into outer frigging space, swearing at unfortunate moments, listening, cuddling, knowing when something's wrong, injuring myself and then having no idea how I did it, losing my glasses.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my username is easy to misread.

Honestly, I have no idea. Possibly my height (er, lack of), or the fact that I'm singing, out loud, possibly while rocking out, as I walk down the street. Also, I have an assortment of awesome hats. Or it might be my shaggy Ukrainian eyebrows.

I have been told I'm intimidating. I'm not sure whether that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything written by Lois McMaster Bujold or Terry Pratchett, Kage Baker, Kate Griffin, Douglas Adams, Spider Robinson and the Strangers in Paradise graphic novels/comics/whatever. I read a lot of science fiction and fantasy from the library, chosen on the basis of "this looks cool."

I'm not that into movies but I like watching them with people. A few that spring to mind include anything by Mel Brooks, The Lego Movie (shut up), Columbiana, The Road to El Dorado, The Mummy (1 and 2, the third one was awful, and not in a campy funny way), and Batman: The Movie (The 1966 one with Adam West. Seriously, it's hilarious.) I do follow a few tv shows, particularly Sherlock and Doctor Who, and I'm working my way through Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood and Deathnote. My favourite anime is probably still Escaflowne though, probably at least partially due to nostalgia. Which is also the reason I have a soft spot for Xena: Warrior Princess and The Muppets.

I like a lot of music, but here's the short list. Sarah Slean (want to be her so badly), Janelle Monae, Amanda Palmer, Melissa Kaplan (currently doing the "Universal Hall Pass" project, in case you want to look her up, previously of a band called Splashdown), The Pink Spiders, the Danger Bees, Prozzac, Imogen Heap, Brody Dalle (both in The Distillers and Spinnerette), Die Mannequin, the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, the Barenaked Ladies, La Roux, the Offspring, Deirdre Flint, Metric, Bif Naked, and pretty much any drinking song. I also love musicals, my favourite being Cabaret.

Just realized I missed my internet music favourites: Jonathan Coulton, Paul and Storm and Sweetafton23 (aka Molly Lewis). The best kind of comedy, slightly dirty, slightly depressing and/or slightly disturbing ^^

Favourite food would be either butter chicken or pad thai, depending on my mood.

There isn't a category for it, but I'm going to list my top games and game series anyway: Prince of Persia: Sands of Time and 3D (yes, I actually liked PoP 3D), Knights of the Old Republic (one and two), Zelda (ocarina of time, then majora's mask, then oracle of ages/seasons, then link's awakening), Myst (Exile being my favourite, but I love all of them except Uru which I never played) and World of Warcraft. Oh, and Day of the Tentacle (not what it sounds like), both Portal games and Tomb Raider (all the ones I've played anyway, I actually like the new one.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Words, in all their many fascinating forms, music, new information and experiences, a few solid people I can count on, occasional time away from everyone else, something useful to do.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
School, what the hell I'm doing with my life, music, work, sex, gender, abstract ideas and ideals, how to fix all kinds of things from myself to the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't think I've had a typical friday night in five years. I'm probably playing music, or out drinking, or at home drinking, or watching tv, or playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Been dealing with some emotional/psychological and financial stuff lately, which is why I haven't been super friendly on here. The last thing I want is to meet some awesome new person and then get them bogged down in my drama.
You should message me if
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You don't find me scary or boring, you do find me attractive or interesting, you want to meet up at some point and swap stories or ideas, then see where things go from there.

You actually read, like...any of my profile. I know it's long and I won't be offended if you haven't read all of it, but...just as a for instance, if you answered "yes" to homosexuality being a sin and "no" to open or poly relationships....chances are I'm not the one for you.

You should absolutely message me if there's this event or activity you've been wanting to do and you'd like company.

You want to help me practice my French (not a euphemism). I'm still not fluent, but I'm getting there, and I intend to be at least as close as an anglo can get by the end of my studies.

If sparks don't exactly fly, no worries. I like meeting new people.