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39 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
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  • Who are single
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
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My self-summary
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I like to wander around and explore
I like to skip stones and poke fire with a stick
My Lego spaceship will kick your Lego spaceship's ass
I stop to pet the animals
If we go canoeing I'll want to steer (for awhile)
I live with a tree frog who arrived mysteriously in a potted violet.
What I’m doing with my life
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In a recent dream I looked down at myself and saw that I was Robocop. I thought "Holy shit! I'm Robocop! I'm fucking awesome!" Then a voice said "Be careful, that costume is really expensive," and I realized that no, I was not Robocop, I was just PLAYING Robocop at an amusement park.

In my awake life, I quit a stressful publishing job in NYC and moved back to Toronto to find my true calling. I thought it would take 3 months or so but it's been 2 years and I'm still trying out different things. In the meantime, I write nonfiction books for kids, take classes (improv, comedy writing, magazine journalism), run a terrarium business from my kitchen, and hold stuff for one of our mayoral candidates.
I’m really good at
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making things
imagining things into being
getting to the heart of the matter

summoning cats
The first things people usually notice about me
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hair colour? loud laugh?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I prefer to read nonfiction.

I like Bukowski, Al Purdy, and John Donne poems.

The Agenda with Steve Paikin, OITNB, this weird kid's show with live action toy trucks that speak French

I'll watch nearly any documentary but prefer to read a lot of reviews before choosing a regular movie.

Some of my favourite musicians: Neko Case, Gillian Welch, Cat Power, Joni Mitchell, Queen, Rodriguez
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
swear words

The six things I could definitely do without:
bubble tea
small chat
other people's travel photos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the relationship between humans and other living things
words and different ways to arrange them
old buildings and rusty stuff
the mechanics of humour
organizational solutions
alpaca farming
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
anything but freestyle dancing. i'm an inhibited dancer. choreographed is okay. there's a video called "Best Bluegrass Clog Dancing Video Ever Made" that's made me really want to learn to clog dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was denied at the liquor store the other day because I didn't have my ID with me. Had to leave my bottles on the counter and do the empty-handed slink of shame to the exit like a naughty teenager. It's flattering and feel-good if you have your ID in your pocket, but because I did not, it was ridiculous, embarrassing, and so inconvenient that I started to cry a little bit.
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