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31 Baltimore, MD Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Pansexual, Queer
Relationship Type
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am attracted to all types of people, including, but not limited to, faggy cisgender men, masculine transmen, faggy transmen, femme cisgender women, butch cisgender women.

I am a feminist.

I have radical queer politics.
I think marriage is bunk and wish so many sexual deviants weren't tripping over themselves to get to the the altar.
I think capitalism is fatally flawed.
My politics tend toward anarchistic....I believe in community-based problem solving and resource distribution.
I love summer. Ideally, I would live in cut off jean shorts, flip flops and tank tops.

I love maps and am contemplating a giant map tattoo chest piece.

I have a dog and 2 cats. If you have allergies to pet hair, we will not work.

I am poly and kinky.

I find wit sexy and enjoy flirty banter.

I identify as a femme tomboy.

I am pro-union and pro-worker.
I like to knit, play cards, do crossword puzzles garden and compost. I also really like to talk about gardening and composting.

I am quite quirky and honest.
I think tattoos and piercings are sexy.

I do not shave my legs or my armpits. If your a dude and after reading this you still want to message me, feel free.

I have lived in Ohio, Denver, New York and Baltimore.
I am witty, sarcastic, and intelligent
I am pro-unicorn.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living as an unrepentant, fat, queer anti-assimilationist. Always looking to chat/meet other like minded folks.

Working as little as possible and having fun as much as possible.
learning to love myself as fat.
I have a garden and am learning to ferment foods. I have a compost bin and am into reducing waste and re-purposing

One day I hope to have an urban farm/radical queer homestead.

*update: working on becoming a CNA and then hopefully nursing school*
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making coffee
Annoying people for my own amusement
playing devil's advocate
keeping basil alive in the winter
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair cause its asymmetrical or my eyes cause they are very blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i read about feminism, abortion, birth control/repro justice, the law, the death penalty, queer theory/justice, gender, labor, fat politics, gardening, homesteading, radical home ec.

i like sublime, tegan and sarah, tracy chapman, paul simon, the flobots, lady gaga, journey, the ramones

i like to eat food that involves dairy and carbs. i lov choc cake. I am not a vegetarian but try to limit my meat to that which is ethically sourced. Ditto w dairy and eggs.

movies: rom coms, sleepers, a league of their own, Newsies

t.v. The west wing before Aaron Sorkin stopped writing for it, the wire, homicide, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Scandal, Revenge, call the midwife, Friday night lights
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog and cats
cell phone
A garden/plants/seedlings
public transit
Vinegar and baking soda
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why people aren't nicer to each other, sustainability and how i can be less wasteful...and the revolution.

Why people set themselves up in traditional family structures. I think that a lot of people think this will guarantee them safety and stability ans care. And it can. But there are other ways to do this. And marriage with kids isn't necessarily for everyone. And that it seems like a lot of people feel alienated and trapped by this model. If anyone has any thoughts about this, I would love to hear them.

How to call people out on their use of oppressive language without completely offending them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably reading
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i like to pick my nose
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
your looking for a girl that is not the stereotypical girl and can challenge you.

You are radical/genderqueer/anarcho/anti-authoritarian.

You understand why using the word 'lame' is fucked up.

You have radical politics and are cute.

You like fatness. I do not have anymore room in my life for the fat phobic. Unless you are genuinely interested in not being fat phobic. Then i will more than happy to help you become more size positive and generally body positive.

You wanna talk about homesteading, gardening, or composting. Bonus points if you are a gardener/farmer/homesteader or aspire to be any of, or all(!) these things

You would enjoy cooking a locally, functionally organic, pastured meal for me on cast iron.

You are not opposed to making, and keeping, dates ahead of time.