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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:03pm
5' 6" (1.68m)
Not at all
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've been living in New York for the last 6+ years working, going to school, going to as many shows as possible and enjoying the fuck out of the city. I'm moving back to NC at the beginning of September.
What I’m doing with my life
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Applying to grad school. I currently work at a vegan restaurant for pay and listen/play to loud and abrasive music that emanates from powerful tube amps.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neurosis, Earth, Sunn O))), Sleep, Swans, Isis, Boris, Khanate, King Crimson, Sir Lord Baltimore, Pentagram, Black Sabbath, Melvins, Kyuss, Burning Witch, Om, Yob, Godflesh, Eyehategod, Nirvana, My Bloody Valentine, Velvet Underground, Bjork, David Bowie, Nico, Joy Division, Gang of Four, the Sugarcubes, Bathory, Darkthrone, Emperor, Bell Witch, Jesu, Subrosa, Weakling, Leviathan, Xasthur, Ulver, Mayhem, Immortal, Burzum, Pallbearer, Earthless, Nadja, Chelsea Wolfe, Spacemen 3, Galaxie 500, Spiritualized, Bardo Pond, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Slint, Sigur Ros, Pavement, Mudhoney, Electric Wizard, Jesus Lizard, Scratch Acid, Butthole Surfers, the Pixies, the Breeders, Primus, Tool, Weedeater, SUMAC, Old Man Gloom, Grief, Winter, diSEMBOWELMENT, Napalm Death, Amebix, Celtic Frost, Venom, Primitive Man, Corrupted. Pharmakon, Ahab, Meshuggah, Joanna Newsom, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Unwound, High on Fire, Big Business, Amenra, Ufomammut, Lightning Bolt, The Necks, Melt-Banana, Growing, Kinski, Soundgarden, Dinosaur Jr, Meat Puppets, Unsane, Shellac, Babes in Toyland, Bikini Kill, Sonic Youth, the Smiths, Cocteau Twins, Beat Happening, Jane's Addiction, early Hole, Yo La Tengo, Motorhead, Slayer, Black Flag, Bad Brains, Fugazi, Flipper, Minutemen, Saint Vitus, Minor Threat, New York Dolls, Richard Hell, the Modern Lovers, Patti Smith, Neil Young, Jimi Hendrix, the Stooges, Big Black, the Cramps, Lou Reed, Suicide, the Birthday Party, Television, Nico, Mazzy Star, Love, the Grateful Dead.
Cage, El-P, Company Flow, Juggaknots, C-Rayz Walz, Cannibal Ox, Del the funky homosapien, MF Doom, Aesop Rock, Kool Keith, Redman, Outkast, Wu-Tang Clan, R.A. the Rugged Man

Movies: The Shining, Susperia, Jack Ketchum's The Girl Next Door, Let the Right One In, Altered States, Monster (2003), The Fly, Eraserhead, Martyrs, Misery, Phenomena, Deliverance, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Elephant Man, Psycho, Terminator II, fucking POINT BREAK.

Fanshen by William H. Hinton, Autobio of Malcolm X, Britain's Gulag: Brutal End of Empire in Kenya by Caroline Elkins, Hard Times by Charles Dickens, People In Trouble by Sarah Schulman, anything by Arundhati Roy, Millenium Trilogy, anything by Stephen King, Foucault's The History of Sexuality Vol. 1, Marx's The German Ideology, Soledad Brothers, Waiting 'Til the Midnight Hour, the Collected Works of Mao, Live From Death Row (and anything else by Mumia Abu Jamal), Stitches: A Memoir by David Small, Pat Califia's Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex, Ariel Levy's Female Chauvinist Pigs, Virginia Woolf's A Room of One's Own, The Sun Also Rises by Hemingway, The Man in the High Castle by Philip K. Dick, and books with purrdy pictures.

Vegetarian food. Strong, piping hot black coffee year 'round like a good Norseman.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Black coffee
Amps that accentuate the mighty low end of sound
Layla (my dog)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
No more fake mustache pics, or comments in your profile about how much you love sarcasm, whiskey and 'witty banter', please. jesus.
You should message me if
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You're a woman who's into head-banging, metal, marvel comics, and backpacking.

You're in love with animals (wild ones, not puppies and kittens, although of course they're alright too) and live dead (the band). You're a Bjorkophile. You're a woman of character, integrity and heart.

You want to find someone to go to dangerous punk rock and metal shows with.

**I'm really not into people who think very highly of themselves and/or pat themselves on the back a lot for being such a good person. I believe strongly that most of us (myself included) really are not that great and don't deserve praise/validation b/c of our very hip, very academic, very white-Western-upper class, very PC "ideals" about race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. I'm not impressed by the number of Gender Studies/3rd Wave terms you have incorporated into your vocabulary or how non-binary you profess to be. Having "progressive" views on these issues means that you're not a piece of shit, it doesn't make you a social justice warrior or an above-average individual. NO ONE is a good person because of their values or ideas, and great people generally don't think of themselves as such.

Or if the spirit simply moves thee. These aren't all exactly requirements, but each of the above trait/proclivity is a definite plus.

If you think chivalry is sweet or whatever, we probably won't vibe.

*Please don't rate my profile 4 or 5 stars and then not talk to me/not respond to a hello. That's just creepy and confusing. Much appreciated.*