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29 • Durham, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 7:03pm
- 5' 6" (1.68m)
- Not at all
- Might want kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
Cage, El-P, Company Flow, Juggaknots, C-Rayz Walz, Cannibal Ox, Del the funky homosapien, MF Doom, Aesop Rock, Kool Keith, Redman, Outkast, Wu-Tang Clan, R.A. the Rugged Man
Movies: The Shining, Susperia, Jack Ketchum's The Girl Next Door, Let the Right One In, Altered States, Monster (2003), The Fly, Eraserhead, Martyrs, Misery, Phenomena, Deliverance, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Elephant Man, Psycho, Terminator II, fucking POINT BREAK.
Fanshen by William H. Hinton, Autobio of Malcolm X, Britain's Gulag: Brutal End of Empire in Kenya by Caroline Elkins, Hard Times by Charles Dickens, People In Trouble by Sarah Schulman, anything by Arundhati Roy, Millenium Trilogy, anything by Stephen King, Foucault's The History of Sexuality Vol. 1, Marx's The German Ideology, Soledad Brothers, Waiting 'Til the Midnight Hour, the Collected Works of Mao, Live From Death Row (and anything else by Mumia Abu Jamal), Stitches: A Memoir by David Small, Pat Califia's Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex, Ariel Levy's Female Chauvinist Pigs, Virginia Woolf's A Room of One's Own, The Sun Also Rises by Hemingway, The Man in the High Castle by Philip K. Dick, and books with purrdy pictures.
Vegetarian food. Strong, piping hot black coffee year 'round like a good Norseman.
Amps that accentuate the mighty low end of sound
Layla (my dog)
You're in love with animals (wild ones, not puppies and kittens, although of course they're alright too) and live dead (the band). You're a Bjorkophile. You're a woman of character, integrity and heart.
You want to find someone to go to dangerous punk rock and metal shows with.
**I'm really not into people who think very highly of themselves and/or pat themselves on the back a lot for being such a good person. I believe strongly that most of us (myself included) really are not that great and don't deserve praise/validation b/c of our very hip, very academic, very white-Western-upper class, very PC "ideals" about race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. I'm not impressed by the number of Gender Studies/3rd Wave terms you have incorporated into your vocabulary or how non-binary you profess to be. Having "progressive" views on these issues means that you're not a piece of shit, it doesn't make you a social justice warrior or an above-average individual. NO ONE is a good person because of their values or ideas, and great people generally don't think of themselves as such.
Or if the spirit simply moves thee. These aren't all exactly requirements, but each of the above trait/proclivity is a definite plus.
If you think chivalry is sweet or whatever, we probably won't vibe.
*Please don't rate my profile 4 or 5 stars and then not talk to me/not respond to a hello. That's just creepy and confusing. Much appreciated.*
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