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quiet_thinker

51 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am introverted, curious, and analytical.

My Self-Summary

I live in Queens and work in the Wall Street area in Manhattan, as a computer programmer for an insurance company. I'm not into parties or partying; I like quiet,comfortable activities. My interests include travel, photography, history, science fiction, anime, and roleplaying games, and I'd like someone interested in at least some of that. Places I've travelled include Japan, Patagonia, Alaska, the Panama Canal, Greece, Egypt, and Scandinavia.

I’m really good at

Solving computer programming problems at work, understanding mathematical and scientific concepts, working out the implications of ideas.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm 5'3" tall and wear glasses.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Lord of Light, by Roger Zelazny. Quarantine, by Greg Egan. Lord Darcy, by Randall Garrett. Ethshar series, by Lawrence Watt-Evans. Guns, Germs, and Steel, by Jared Diamond. Monitor, by James Tertius Dekay.

Movies: The Great Race, The Great Escape, The Princess Bride, Indiana Jones movies, Ghostbusters, The Court Jester.

Television: Star Trek, Doctor Who, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, House, Futurama, Columbo.

Music: Various things: the Beatles and other 1960s, a lot from the early 1980s, I just got into the group Scissor Sisters, etc. I particularly enjoy humorous and parody songs, e.g. Weird Al Yankovic stuff.

Food: I like most things, as long as it's not too spicy. Chinese and Japanese food are favorites, and I'm fond of diner comfort food.

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Plans for future travel.

On a typical Friday night I am

having Shabbos dinner with my parents, then home watching television, reading, or on the computer.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm rather asexual, and have never been interested in a sexual relationship with anyone.

You should message me if

You'd be interested in dating and doing things together: dinner, movies, sharing interests, cuddling together watching TV, things like that, or if you'd be okay with a romantic, affectionate, but not sexual relationship.