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35 Winchester, UK Man


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  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Never easy to describe yourself in a little box.

Well I'd like to think I'm a bit of a renaissance man; love the arts, design, history, film, theatre, music and literature (always got 3 or 4 books on the go at one time and can't come to terms with the kindle. Having said that a lot of it is trashy fiction).

Can't wait to get outdoors at the weekend and love to be outside doing stuff.

I cook and can make some pretty impressive dishes (whilst sometimes sipping red wine Keith Floyd style). Love to eat out at exciting new restaurants, cafes and bistros

Enjoy travel and seeing new things.

Work hard and extremely ambitious. Typical working class lad trying to better himself really.

In short though believe life should be lived with laughter and fun (bit pointless otherwise).

Appreciate I'm someone who can be a contradiction at times; drive a car people wouldn't expect but have national trust/english heritage membership stickers in the window. Can be comfortable sitting in a room full of academics discussing policy or stood in a pub bantering with a bunch of builders. Don't get nervous standing talking in front of hundreds of people but can be shy and quiet sometimes (mainly when I'm tired it must be said). In all, suppose I'm someone comfortable in their skin and happy with who they are. So sod the contradictions and enjoy what makes you happy I say.

Ideal person is someone can connect with, banter with, enjoy being in their company either in silence or constantly talking (I do love to talk). Do love beautiful eyes and a winning smile.

Looking, ideally, to meet that perfect someone but more than happy to make new friends, have great times and meet people I would never have got the opportunity to meet along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing a job I love that comes with a lot of responsibility. Does mean I do long hours through the week. Love it though, wouldn't change it for the world.

So come the weekend making sure I live and enjoy the best time possible.

Getting very into diet and nutrition of late, as well as exploring vintage shops, its a new addicton.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dealing with people and helping them to believe in themselves.
Making people laugh
Making dull things much more interesting.
Rather good at cooking (used to be a professional chef who ended is career working at a naturist country club)
Pretty talented procrastinator when I want to be.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Often my general level of hairiness! I do possess the superpower of being able to grow a beard in under two weeks (Thus for the last 3 months a troupe of trainee hairdressers have been doing their barbering exams on me, culminating in a Francis Drake styled beard, including waxed moustache. Rather liked it - cleaner shaven now as its the hols and way to hot for hair)

Ideally I'd like to think its my general persona, but to be honest I've no idea (Blue eyes maybe or voice?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love to read crime fiction and noir, read alot of non-fiction with work, favourite authors have are David Mitchell, Philip Kerr, Ian Rankin, Len Deighton, William Boyd and Jo Nesbo.

Fav all time book is 'Armadillo' by William Boyd

Pretty open-minded on moves, do love big epic cinematography or a compelling storyline. Do love a bit of french cinema from time to time. Saying that did rewatch Grosse Point Blank last night and forgotten how much I love that movie.

Don't watch a lot of TV, so don't really have a fav show. Currently watching Game of Thrones, working my way through box sets of Wallander, Breaking Bad and Rome and rewatching series 1 and 2 of the Mighty Boosh.

Music, hugely varied tastes from indie, to rap, to funk n soul, rock, classical and much more. Latest album I brought was by Bonobo (i'm still buying CD's, love the feel and artwork - then off course spend ages uploading to laptop and IPod!)

Food - love good, fresh food. Simple flavours are often the best. Adore tapas and sushi at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The simple things in life

Garden or somewhere to grow things

Tea (of various varieties)

My family (they are wonderful and have been true rocks over the years)

Books (to feed the mind), music to lift the soul and film to fill the hours.

Pen, pencil and pad (love to sketch and write down ideas)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be better at what I do, writing ideas, needing to out of bed, going to the gym, diet & nutrition and what the future holds
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Now that really does vary. Preferably it involves people though (staying in or going out).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, apart from being the original naked chef??

Well I have a son who is amazing and lives with his mum abroad.
You should message me if
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You'd like to spend some time together, get to know each other and see where it goes from there (new friends are just as welcome as potential partners)

Currently also really keen to make new friends around Europe or pen pals.

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