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quietshade

44 M Scottsdale, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:53pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French, Korean, Latin

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My self-summary
to embrace imperfection
to fumble for grace
these are a few of my favorite things
What I’m doing with my life
embracing my ocd for remodeling stuff
I’m really good at
taking a nap
practical things and fun things--and trying to mix the two
face plant -- it'll hurt less with more practice (I'm hoping)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like fiction and non-fiction; history and contemporary; scientific and philosophical. Reads lately ... Game of Thrones, Codependent No More, In the Garden of Beasts, Lincoln Lawyer, Stop Walking on Eggshells, Reckless Endangerment, the Stieg Larsson trilogy, The Glass Castle, The Resiliency Advantage, Pricing the Future, The Gifts of Imperfection, Concrete Planet, Quiet, Being Wrong.

Movies: no splatter/horror ... otherwise, yeah, I like 'em. I guess I did like Resident Evil, but I think it's more the sci-fi/action genre. I like to mix drama/thriller and some foreign and documentary into my movie diet.

Shows: comedy; one person shows; broadway too, but it's been a few years.

Music: more cowbell!; good ska--bring on the brass; Lana Del Rey; Neko Case; Mazzy Star; Gillian Welch; Damien Rice; My Chemical Romance; David Bowie; Groove Armada; ELO; Rosie Thomas; Imogen Heap; Florence & the Machine; Leonard Cohen; Beth Orton; Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs; Cat Power; The Xx; The Be Good Tanyas; Eagles; Fiona Apple; Kasabian; a little dub here and there; nerd-core ...

A lot of NPR and Comedy Channel.

Food: sushi; cuban; thai; indian; spicey, spicey!
The six things I could never do without
(0) Sanity
(1) Freedom
(2) Faith
(3) Courage
(4) Compassion
(5) Love
(6) Spirit

Kind of an abstract thing going on there.
Especially zero. Gotta love zero.
I mean, what would we do without nothin'?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Balance.

Coming back to the present.

Gratitude. Responsibility.

Opportunity and Choice.

The regulatory functions of the frontal lobe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Balancing out the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I chug milk from the carton.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can be yourself and let others be themselves.
You prefer to appreciate Life as a rich tapestry of colors, rather than merely black and white.

You can have fun with makeup, while being comfortable without it--I honestly find myself attracted to women who tend to be gorgeous without makeup...at least as far as I'm concerned.

You understand that conflict doesn't have to be abusive--verbally, psychologically, emotionally. I.E. Compassion trumps "being right". And conflict doesn't have to be avoided either. We can just let it fall somewhere in between extremes. I believe there is such a thing as healthy conflict.

Body, mind, soul ... what floats your boat? Do you know what you like--what nurtures you?
Do you ask yourself what makes you tick? Are you curious about the world, others and yourself?

As far as late-late nightlife, you like to go out, but it's probably not a regular thing. I'm used to catching up on sleep, but I hate feeling like I've been through five different time zones by the end of the week.

You enjoy children. You think you're in a good place. You want to stay in a good place. You want a relationship with all that it can offer, including support, connection, respect, trust, independence, give-and-take. And, of course, you can accept the occupational hazards of being human and being with someone else who is also human.

You share a strong desire to be a parent and enjoy the challenges and rewards that come with our humble attempts to believe in and support children, as well as one another.