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36 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 31
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Vietnamese

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My self-summary
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I'm an eccentric gal of the Asian persuasion. Going out to eat, watching movies, and vegging on the couch are some of my favorite things to do. I just moved back to the Bay Area after school and would love to meet someone who shares my interests and can introduce me to new ones!
What I’m doing with my life
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I just finished my dental residency and am now a fully-fledged, practicing DDS. For any of you with dental phobias, don't worry, I don't bring my work home with me! (In fact, I'm desperately past due for my own dental checkup.) But if you're big on oral hygiene, I'm your girl.

Since I've been focused on my career for the past few years, I'm finally ready to meet new people and have fun. I've been pretty myopic in that area (to be honest, myopic in the eye area as well, but that's what contacts are for), so I want to meet people who can lead me through new experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating. Don't judge me by the way I look... I can put away a lot and am always willing to try new foods (and drinks)!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a bit gawky (in case you couldn't tell from my pics). It's not that I'm tall -- I'm just not too coordinated. So, playing a game of racquetball with me will probably lead to a bruised cornea for you (it's happened)!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I used to read a lot of books, but I think I've burned out as most things I read that aren't for work nowadays are online mags and blogs. Anything book-length is too much of a commitment!

My friends drag me to all sorts of movies and I enjoy a lot of them. It's not so much the movie as the company that's important to me! But, when I'm alone I like to watch comedies, dramas and the occasional bosom-heaving period piece (what can I say, I'm a girl)!

I generally listen to whatever pop music is playing on the radio, but I also enjoy classical music and wish I had the opportunity to go to more concerts. I also love opera and musical theater.

Food is my passion! I love going out to eat and enjoy a variety of ethnic foods. If you're a finicky eater, we probably won't be able to mesh. I do have a fondness for sweet things: chocolate, pastries and other girly stuff. But I also love beefy burgers, spicy curries, tacos, noodle soups, juicy rare steaks... I just love to eat!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop (it's what I'm using right now)
Comfy pajamas (see last item)
Soap (I'm a bit of a neat freak. At least I smell good.)
Food (if you hadn't already guessed)
A fluffy bed (who can't resist a good day of laying in?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting up with girlfriends for dinner and drinks (and/or a movie).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't reveal a lot about myself until I get to know a person, so I won't admit much until then.
You should message me if
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you want to try out a such-and-such restaurant and want some company! (I'm not totally obsessed with food though, so if you're a nice guy and just want to hang out, send me a message and we'll chat!)