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39 F Carrboro, NC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 9
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
I'm a pretty down to earth, open-minded person looking for the same in a partner. I like to laugh and generally see the glass half full. I like to spend time with friends and family and try to make a conscious effort to have balance in my life.

I'm a pretty independent person. I'm not the type of person who will be with someone just so as not to be alone. In Spanish, there's a saying: "Mejor sola que mal acompañada" (translation: better to be alone than in bad company), and, for the most part, I try to live by this philosophy. In other words, I am not looking to meet someone for the sake of being with someone. I am looking to meet someone with a similar outlook on life who will make me happy, and whom I will hopefully make happy, with whom I can share my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Luckily I have a job I like, teaching and writing, and trying to do my part to make this world a better place. Even though work keeps me busy, I try to ensure that it does not consume me. For fun, I play tennis, hang out with friends, watch movies, go out to eat, etc.
I’m really good at
listening to other people, procrastinating, finding humor in situations, sleeping in, seeing the glass half full
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read all kinds all the time. It kind of goes with the territory of my profession.

Movies: I'd watch pretty much anything but horror (with the exception of Hitchcock). My favorite actor is Gael Garcia Bernal, and some of my favorite films are: Inception, Hugo, The Princess Bride, and A Fish Called Wanda.

TV Shows: Lost and Seinfeld are probably two of the best shows of all time. My current favorite is Once Upon a Time.

Music: I'm open to most types. My favorite band might be Ozomatli, and Lila Downs is inspirational.

Food: I like most kinds (and have a sweet and savory tooth). I usually try to eat healthily, but I also believe in enjoying life and that most things are just fine in moderation.
The six things I could never do without
friends and family (these count as one)
coffee shops
the beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about having balance in life. My work is important to me, but it's just as important to me do other things that make me happy too. Tennis is a great stress reliever. Spending time with friends and family is a must.
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends on the Friday. I don't have a regular routine. Sometimes I hang out with friends, watch a movie, go out to eat, or go to a bar. Sometimes I stay in and work. It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like young adult novels (e.g. The Hunger Games trilogy, the Harry Potter series, The Giver).
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You think we might be compatible, are hoping to meet someone with whom you can potentially imagine sharing your life, and are looking to meet someone with whom you can laugh, cry, and, most importantly, be yourself.