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40 Carrboro, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:33pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
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I'm a pretty down to earth, open-minded person looking for the same in a partner. I like to laugh and generally see the glass half full. I like to spend time with friends and family and try to make the most of what life throws my way.

I'm fairly independent (some might say a tad stubborn). I'm not the type of person who will be with someone so as not to be alone. In Spanish, there's a saying: "Mejor sola que mal acompañada" (translation: better to be alone than in bad company); and, for the most part, I try to live by this philosophy. In other words, I'm not looking to meet someone for the sake of being with someone. I am looking to meet someone with a similar outlook on life who can make me happy and whom I can hopefully make happy. I'm looking for someone with whom I can laugh, be silly and serious, and be myself. And I'm hoping to find someone who will laugh with me, be silly and serious, and be himself in turn.
What I’m doing with my life
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Luckily I have a job that makes me happy, teaching, writing, and trying to do my part to make this world a better place. Even though work keeps me busy, I try to ensure that it doesn't consume me. For fun, I play tennis (the more, the better), hang out with friends, watch movies, go out to eat, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to other people, procrastinating, finding humor in situations, sleeping in, seeing the good in people and situations
The first things people usually notice about me
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you tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read all kinds all the time. It goes with the job.

Movies: I'd watch pretty much anything but horror (with the exception of Hitchcock). Favorite films include Inception and The Princess Bride.

TV Shows: Lost and Seinfeld are probably two of the best shows of all time. My current favorite is Once Upon a Time.

Music: Favorites include Ozomatli and Lila Downs.

Food: I like most kinds and like trying different types of cuisine (and I have a sweet and savory tooth). I usually try to eat healthily, but that won't stop me from indulging from time to time. I like to enjoy a good meal, especially with good company.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family (these count as one)
travel (domestic and international)
coffee shops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
family, friends, tennis, traveling, the beach, the outdoors, mindless stuff, mindful stuff...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the Friday. I don't have a regular routine. Sometimes I hang out with friends, watch a movie, go out to eat, or go to a bar. This list isn't exhaustive by any means, though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like young adult novels (e.g. The Hunger Games trilogy, the Harry Potter series, The Giver). I suppose that's not very private. I guess we'll have to meet in person for you to find out more...
You should message me if
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