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41 Carrboro, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–49
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 22
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish, French
My self-summary
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I'm a down to earth, pretty independent, open-minded person looking for the same in a partner. I appreciate a good sense of humor, like to spend time with friends and family, and try to make the most of what life throws my way.

I'm looking to meet someone with a similar outlook on life who can make me happy and whom I can hopefully make happy. I'm looking for someone with whom I can be silly and serious, and, most importantly, be myself. And I'm hoping to find someone who will laugh with me, be silly and serious, and be himself in turn.

If you are a positive and compassionate person who tries to see the best in people and situations, if you value friends and family, if you like kids, if you appreciate a good sense of humor, if you can enjoy the simple things in life, if you recognize that the world is far bigger than the place where you live and want to explore different parts of the world, and if you feel like it's important to try to do your part to make this world even just a little bit of a better place, then I hope you'll contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Luckily I have a job that makes me happy, teaching and writing. For fun, I play tennis, hang out with friends, watch movies, go out to eat, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to other people, procrastinating, finding humor in situations, sleeping in, seeing the good in people and situations
The first things people usually notice about me
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you tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read all kinds all the time. It goes with the job.

Movies: I'd watch pretty much anything but horror. I have a long list of favorite films. I tend to gravitate toward foreign language and independent films over big blockbusters. That said, mainstream flicks that I could watch over and over again include Inception and The Princess Bride. I also tend to love most anything in which Gael García Bernal stars; he is a phenomenal actor who tends to choose smart films.

TV Shows: Lost might just be the best show of all time. My current favorite is Once Upon a Time, although I'm also enjoying old seasons of Parks & Rec.

Music: Favorites include Ozomatli and Lila Downs.

Food: I like most kinds and like trying different types of cuisine (and I have a sweet and savory tooth).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family (these count as one)
travel (domestic and international)
coffee shops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
family, friends, tennis, traveling, the beach, the outdoors, mindless stuff, mindful stuff...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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