Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please read my profile before messaging me (there are a few things
that could be deal-breakers for some people. I don't want to waste
your time and I don't want to waste mine). If I've sent you a
message, it's because I've read your profile and more than one
thing you've said has piqued my interest.
I'm a 35yo guy, in reasonable physical shape, mentally fit with a
pretty good outlook on life.
I'm a musician and earn my living doing a little bit of anything
musical. I'm a single dad to three kids (potential deal breaker no.
1), all of whom I love to bits and who stay with me about half the
time. I don't intend to have any more children (potential deal
breaker no. 2).
I smoke (potential deal-breaker no. 3) and I drink socially but
would prefer a joint over a beer, to be honest (potential deal
breaker no. 4).
I'm here to meet people. If the potential deal-breakers don't faze
you and you want to know more, send me a message.
I'm not actively seeking love - I'm sure it'll find me at some
point - and neither am I looking for one night stands. I'd like to
meet people with a view to possibly becoming friends or something
more than friends. I like getting to know new people regardless, so
if we meet and there's a spark - great. If not, then so be it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a few days a week selling pianos, I play some gigs, I teach
a little. I play with my kids when they're around and when they're
not, I'm most likely relaxing at home or out catching up with
friends. I do like relaxing a lot... yeah, relaxing at home is my
favourite thing to do, both with and without company
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking. I consider my mind to be my best asset and I respect
intelligence in others. I like to figure things out and you might
catch me staring off into the distance from time to time as my
brain ticks over. I think I'm pretty funny, but if you have a
vanilla sense of humour you might not agree.
Playing the piano. I can smell pianos from a block away and find
myself inexplicably drawn to them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and paper (I'm counting that as one thing); a piano; smiles; my
eyes; my ears; sunshine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature; evolution; time and space; how this particular chord
would sound over that particular root note; how beautiful spring
is; how I really should iron a shirt before I go to bed so I can
sleep in an extra ten minutes in the morning; how interesting this
time in history is; what book I'll read next.
You should message me if
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