I'm a chubby little feminist killjoy: I talk and read about gender, intersectionality, racism, sexuality, body politics, etc, on a daily basis.
I get messages from dudes who tell me I'm intimidating. That seems like an anti-feminist dog whistle to me...(but saying so probably makes me worse, right?)
Obviously also I'm nonmonogamous. I like dudes and sex and snuggling and love, etc.
If I were a canid, I would be a golden retriever.