I have not had much luck here. In fact I wonder why I even bother to stick around. The concept seems to be ass backwards. After all in real life the woman makes the determination of whether or not a relationships starts, it might be a smile or a flip of the hair, but it is she who sets it off.
Unfortunately here the first contact is almost always going to be a guy sending a message and that means one of two things. First: either a targeted message to the intended person or Second: a blast to just about everyone that goes something like "UR hawt send me nude pics ;)", my fingers died slightly just typing that. of course must guys quickly learn that the first option doesn't work be cause too many guys employ the second.
Having looked at many profiles that say, “don't message me if you want pictures or cannot string more than four words together,” indicates that they simply don't want what would normally be found on a dating site especially a free one like this which is really marketing us to advertisers. Think abut it we give them all our demographic statistics and all they have to do is put up ads they don’t even have to pay for research.
Oh well, I guess I am starting to see why the Titanic is tilted the way it is. Anyone have a lifeboat?