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radanax

25 / M / straight / Single

Charlottesville, Virginia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Greek_Ancient (Okay), Latin (Okay), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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I am smart, conscientious, and direct.

My Self-Summary

Hey there! Alec here. I'm a not-yet-settled college graduate trying to balance personal goals with an immoderate fear of debt. I have serious initial shyness, but only sometimes and only initially.

For most of my life I stayed at home and read fantasy and science fiction, but once college started I decided that friends and physical activity are both worthy reasons for not staying at home - and I do not regret this. I do still love reading and learning, though.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm working a boring job and taking small steps towards something new. I've taken a few classes every semester since my undergraduate career ended in the meantime. I don't always find it easy to do both.

I ask a lot of myself -- but it's going to take a lot for me to be satisfied with myself. Sometimes I'm overcome by the joy of learning, sometimes I feel exhausted and spent before I even open my books. It is difficult to be aimed at multiple targets.

I’m really good at

Basic math, extensive metaphorical circumlocution, giving feedback, keeping in touch, and smiling

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably either my eyes or my nervous mannerisms and circumlocutions.

A long time ago -- before college -- I used to have seriously intense eye contact. I don't know what happened with that, but I disapprove of its disappearance.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Offhand, Haruki Murakami and Tom Waits have yet to let me down.

I'm not sure what my taste in movies is, honestly.

I'm not a picky eater.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to survive a dead-end job without losing my soul, what my plans should be for the future, and who I really am.

On a typical Friday night I am

Spending the night at home relaxing with a book and some bare-bones pasta dish I made up, or visiting friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a car.