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35 Tempe, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 20
Hispanic / Latin
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Creative, witty, spontaneous, passionate, inquisitive, upbeat, optimistic, energetic, understanding, affectionate ='s me

I've been away from this site for quite some time, but with the start of a New Year I thought I'd revisit it.

I think I am a true ENFP type ("The Inspirer," Idealist, "Ideal Champion"). I consider myself a pretty genuine and outgoing person. I think that has to do with being born and raised in the Midwest, and my Cuban/Bolivian background. Many say I'm "easy to befriend," which means a lot because I like meeting new people and hearing their stories. I'm also pretty adventurous as I like to seek out new experiences, challenge myself (mentally, physically, socially), and live in the Now.

I'm both mild & spicy, chilled & spastic, intense & casual, and am an old soul with a young spirit. This isn't meant to suggest I'm a skitzoid, but rather that I think I'm a pretty well rounded person who has learned a lot through the years.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am in the middle of my 2nd year in grad school at ASU pursuing a masters in dance with a concentration in technology. I come here via DC, where I lived 8 very fulfilling years as a graphic designer and professional dancer. Transitioning to Arizona has been slow. It literally feels like a different planet. I'm also convinced there are no gay guys in Tempe. So alas here I am! Hoping to make a few friends, connections, and have a few adventures while in the Southwest.
I’m really good at
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• Being witty
• Being creative
• Being optimistic
• Being encouraging
• Being an active listener
• Analyzing the hell out of things
The first things people usually notice about me
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• Upbeat energy
• Genuineness
• Being nice
• Keeping things real
• My boisterous laugh

Physically, I would say my attentive eyes though I've heard surprising comments on my teeth!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some favorite books:
Hunger Games, Siddhartha, Tuesdays with Morie

Some favorite movies:
The Avengers, A Bug's Life, The Family Stone, HSM2, Dancer in the Dark

Some favorite TV Shows:
Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, GIRLS, American Horror, Breaking Bad, and pretty much anything on Bravo (I know, don't judge!)

Some dependable tunes I can always fall back

Marina and the Diamonds, The Ting Tings, Bela Bartok, Ani Difranco, Björk, Mary J. Blige, Alicia Keys, Indigo Girls (I know I'm such a lesbian), The Album Leaf, C+C Music Factory

Some favorite foods:
Thai, Italian, pretty much any desserts
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• My family & friends (this doesn't count as 2 things)
• Sunlight
• Laughter
• My tooth brush
• My freewill
• A camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where are all the gay people at ASU? It's unsettling. And, what's something fun to do in Tempe after 10pm?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmm... After my final rehearsal I usually look forward to decompressing from the week, and I'm always on the lookout for something to do with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think it's important to have a little versatility in a relationship, and so therefore I don't mind the "top or bottom bunk." It just depends on chemistry. Oh, and I like to cuddle either as the big spoon, small spoon... or fork. ;-)
You should message me if
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... you're looking for a new friend, a genuine conversation, a good laugh, or a little bit of adventure. Anyone into karaoke?