radc80
36 Tempe, AZ
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My self-summary
Creative, witty, spontaneous, passionate, inquisitive, upbeat, optimistic, energetic, understanding, affectionate ='s me

I've been away from this site for quite some time, but with the start of a New Year I thought I'd revisit it.

I think I am a true ENFP type ("The Inspirer," Idealist, "Ideal Champion"). I consider myself a pretty genuine and outgoing person. I think that has to do with being born and raised in the Midwest, and my Cuban/Bolivian background. Many say I'm "easy to befriend," which means a lot because I like meeting new people and hearing their stories. I'm also pretty adventurous as I like to seek out new experiences, challenge myself (mentally, physically, socially), and live in the Now.

I'm both mild & spicy, chilled & spastic, intense & casual, and am an old soul with a young spirit. This isn't meant to suggest I'm a skitzoid, but rather that I think I'm a pretty well rounded person who has learned a lot through the years.
What I’m doing with my life
I am in the middle of my 2nd year in grad school at ASU pursuing a masters in dance with a concentration in technology. I come here via DC, where I lived 8 very fulfilling years as a graphic designer and professional dancer. Transitioning to Arizona has been slow. It literally feels like a different planet. I'm also convinced there are no gay guys in Tempe. So alas here I am! Hoping to make a few friends, connections, and have a few adventures while in the Southwest.
I’m really good at
• Being witty
• Being creative
• Being optimistic
• Being encouraging
• Being an active listener
• Analyzing the hell out of things
The first things people usually notice about me
• Upbeat energy
• Genuineness
• Being nice
• Keeping things real
• My boisterous laugh

Physically, I would say my attentive eyes though I've heard surprising comments on my teeth!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some favorite books:
Hunger Games, Siddhartha, Tuesdays with Morie

Some favorite movies:
The Avengers, A Bug's Life, The Family Stone, HSM2, Dancer in the Dark

Some favorite TV Shows:
Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, GIRLS, American Horror, Breaking Bad, and pretty much anything on Bravo (I know, don't judge!)

Some dependable tunes I can always fall back
on:

Marina and the Diamonds, The Ting Tings, Bela Bartok, Ani Difranco, Björk, Mary J. Blige, Alicia Keys, Indigo Girls (I know I'm such a lesbian), The Album Leaf, C+C Music Factory

Some favorite foods:
Thai, Italian, pretty much any desserts
The six things I could never do without
• My family & friends (this doesn't count as 2 things)
• Sunlight
• Laughter
• My tooth brush
• My freewill
• A camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where are all the gay people at ASU? It's unsettling. And, what's something fun to do in Tempe after 10pm?
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmm... After my final rehearsal I usually look forward to decompressing from the week, and I'm always on the lookout for something to do with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think it's important to have a little versatility in a relationship, and so therefore I don't mind the "top or bottom bunk." It just depends on chemistry. Oh, and I like to cuddle either as the big spoon, small spoon... or fork. ;-)
You should message me if
... you're looking for a new friend, a genuine conversation, a good laugh, or a little bit of adventure. Anyone into karaoke?
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