atomstargazer
36 Blacksburg, VA
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My self-summary
INF[P/J]. I'm best described as magnanimous and effusive. I've also been described as "an introvert trying to be an extrovert."

I like long brutal walks with a music player, dancing in the rain, swinging in a hammock, and in general being a layabout... Mostly. Rambling about nothing, or something; random adventures; being a jester; and storytelling tend to be my thing.

I love my feline companion, her name is Del the Cat (Delilah!), and cats in general pretty much rock.

I like going outside from time to time, too. I've done a bit of hiking and camping around here.
What I’m doing with my life
I live rather impulsively when I am not procrastinating. I don't live to one single idea of "what I'm doing with my life," I am just doing; whatever the heck I want. I have found enjoyment in theater or shadow casting, however. And my job is just a thing I do to make more play time happen.
I’m really good at
Being supportive and there for my friends;
I am deeply empathetic and a good active listener.
Cuddling and holding hands.
Gazing at the stars.
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses, probably. I wear a lot of black, too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein is probably one of my most favorite novels ever. I mostly enjoy science fiction and speculative fiction stories, but I do dabble in many different genres; my favorite sub-genre being post-apocalyptic. Books are pretty much the bee's knees.

As for movies, my most favorite one ever is Dead Poet's Society. Mainly, however, I am a big fan of bad movies; cult and b-movies. With Rocky Horror Picture Show being my favorite bad movie of all time. It's basically the king of all cult films, anyway.

TV? Uh... Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Doctor Who, Adventure Time, and Elementary. Just to name a few that really interest me. I guess. Mostly TV is boring. I do play the occasional video game on one.

Music is too varied for me to list my favorites, as I listen to a wide range of things. But I suppose if I must name a few: TOOL/APC/Puscifer, VNV Nation, Muse, Frank Ocean, Angel Olsen, and Dethklok are amongst my favorites. Aesthetic Perfection's album "A Violent Emotion" really stirs me.

Food is good.
I cook for a living, and I think I do a pretty decent job at it while at home as well. Breakfast is definitely my favorite meal of the day. I love spicy food and food full of flavor.
The six things I could never do without
my Cat,
my eyeglasses,
fingernail clippers and file,
a tube of chapstick, and
good companionship.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am a heavy dreamer; I spend a lot of time getting thing lost in my thoughts, dreaming up whole stories. I should probably write these down...
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no standard as to what I do on a Friday night. Dancing? Sometimes. Sitting in my papasan while reading. Hanging out one on one with a friend at my place. A party. Or whatever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had skin cancer back in 2009, but now I am doing much better. I just need to get a check up once a year.
You should message me if
I'm polyamorous, ok? Monogamy just ain't my stick. So do please keep that in mind. However, I am always willing to make new friends regardless of relationship preferences, so don't fret to talk to me if you desire another rad friend in your life.

I'm down to do whatever -- social drink and good conversation are the norm for me. Making out, cuddling, slipping your hand into my hand -- those are pretty cool, too.

Otherwise, just message me if you want to, I'm sure we'll get along swell. Unless you're a racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic asshat; those types need not apply.
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