Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm best described as magnanimous and effusive. I've also been
described as "an introvert trying to be an extrovert." And I do not
consider myself to be masculine or feminine.
I love my feline companion, her name is Del the Cat (Delilah!), and
cats in general pretty much rock.
I feel at my best when I am dressed to impress and with a swoop in
my bangs. As my other photos suggest, I have had a beard but I
don't intend to let it grow again for a long time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live rather impulsively when I am not procrastinating. I don't
live to one single idea of "what I'm doing with my life," I am just
doing; whatever the heck I want. I have found enjoyment in theater
or shadow casting, however. And my job is just a thing I do to make
more play time happen.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being supportive and there for my friends;
I am deeply empathetic and good active listener.
Cuddling and holding hands.
Gazing at the stars.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My glasses, probably. I wear a lot of black, too. Recently people
have been remarking on my swoopy bangs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein is one of my most
favorite novels. I mostly enjoy science fiction and speculative
fiction stories, but I do dabble in many different genres; my
favorite sub-genre being post-apocalyptic. Books are pretty much
the bee's knees.
As for movies, my most favorite one ever is Dead Poet's Society.
Mainly, however, I am a big fan of bad movies; cult and b-movies.
With Rocky Horror Picture Show being my favorite bad movie. It's
basically the king of all cult films, anyway.
Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Doctor Who, Adventure Time,
Elementary, True Blood, and The Walking Dead. Just to name a few
that really interest me.
Music is too varied for me to list my favorites, as I listen to a
wide range of things. But I suppose if I must name a few: VNV
Nation, Muse, Frank Ocean, Rihanna, and Dethklok are among my top
most favorite bands ever. Aesthetic Perfection's album "A Violent
Emotion" really stirs me. I actually have a fetish for sound, as
well (read: auralism)
Food is good.
I cook for a living, and I think I do a pretty decent job at it
while at home as well. Breakfast is definitely my favorite meal of
the day. I love spicy food and food full of flavor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
something around my left wrist,
my phone is my primary source for taking in music,
a tube of chapstick, and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am a heavy dreamer. One of my favorite things to do is to just
sit quietly and listen to the rain, often with music and thoughtful
dreaming. I tend to write novels in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no standard as to what I do on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I had skin cancer back in 2009, but now I am doing much better. I
just need to get a check up once a year.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm polyamorous, ok? Monogamy just ain't my stick. So do please
keep that in mind. However, I am always willing to make new friends
regardless of relationship preferences, so don't fret to talk to me
if you desire another rad friend in your life.
I'm down to do whatever -- social drink and good conversation are
the norm for me. I've been wanting to learn salsa and swing, and
I've been teaching myself how to dance to EDM. Also, yoga interest
me a lot. Long brutal walks are also enjoyable to me. :-)
Making out, cuddling, slipping your hand into my hand -- those are
pretty cool, too.
Otherwise, just message me if you want to, I'm sure we'll get along
swell. Unless you're a racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic
asshat; those types need not apply.
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