New! Incognito Mode. Now you can hand-select who sees you on OkCupid. That means total control of your visibility.
Find better matches with our advanced
39 • Saint Louis, MO • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 4:49pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Banking / Finance
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently)
I changed my user name because I could never remember how many letters were at the end of the old one and besides, it looked artificially sleazy (it wasn't meant to be). And, because all my flashes are radio-controlled. So there you have it.
I haul a camera around and generally know how to use it, which has nothing to do with my day job and for the most part I don't like to do it for money. I tend to photograph cool stuff like roller derby and concerts and other moving things. Occasionally I like to shoot nature, buildings, etc. I hate shooting weddings. I have made it into a couple shows and publications, so that's one thing checked off the list.
The attempted motorcycle thing was an abject failure. Unfortunately, it appears that me and clutch levers are not a match. If clutch levers were on Okcupid, I would have a 100% enemy rating with them. If I need to make up some guy points I will smash a beer can on my head or something.
I live in a house in Tower Grove South. It was built in 1894 as a two-story two-family house, gut rehabbed and turned into a single family home in 2009, and already has presented me with many opportunities to excel at home ownership. So you may run into me in the city sometime. Probably at Home Depot, trying to find something that adapts a 100 year old whatever to a modern whatever without looking like crap.
Now that I have a real house instead of a crappy condo I am going to start drumming again. Really. I mean it this time.
food? sushi, Imo's, Black Thorn, Mexican (tacos al pastor, thanks), spicy stuff. I like veggies but they are hard to keep around the house. I still try to get a lot of them though. I really like almost anything except for hardcore fast food and big chain restaurants. Also not a big fan of Indian and Vietnamese. Otherwise I am pretty flexible. I can usually find something to eat pretty much anywhere.
music? all over the map. I don't really care too much for new country music and opera bugs me unless it's live. Mostly depends on my mood. I am trying to see more original music in STL, so suggestions are welcome. Lately, punk, rockabilly and "gothic americana" stuff like Strawfoot and the Monads are catching a lot of my ear. But I haven't invested in a hot rod or become a wayward preacher just yet.
Speaking of entertainment, Okcupid seems to think I like "The Office." I can't think of anything more depressing than a TV show about corporate life. I turned my TV package off a while ago and can't say I miss it except for hockey games.
cameras 3) a nice Sazerac 4) my buddies, pals, cohorts, and partners in crime. I'll save the other two in case other stuff comes up.
Lofty thought, I know. I guess I'm not saving the world today.
Most of my Saturdays are spent either in town or on the road shooting photos for the various local roller derby leagues and doing other media-related junk. If you have a severe phobia of people who travel regionally or some crucially important Saturday night event that requires my regular presence it might not work so well.
Or, a few times a year, flying back home from a business trip. Nothing beats the atmosphere of an Admiral's Club lounge.
the items in my refrigerator are haphazardly arranged and meager in number, but there are no disgusting spills or exploded/moldy foodstuffs to be found. It is basically a really expensive, stainless steel Brita pitcher that came with the house. I certainly would not have had the gumption to buy such an awesome fridge all on my own. Potential long term matches are welcome to rearrange it as they see fit, although there's really not much interior decorating to be done with a week's worth of fruit and veggies, a few cases of soda/beer, and various types of mustard/hot sauce. (I am not a fan of ketchup.)
Report this photo
How does this violate our Photo Rules?
Thanks! We'll look into the issue soon.
Flagging inappropriate content keeps OkCupid awesome. You're now eligible to be a flag moderator!
Connect your existing OkCupid account
Restore your account to continue meeting new people.
Reset your password
We’ll email you a link to reset it.
An email is on its way to . If you don’t see it, try checking your Spam folder.