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radlesfem

49 / F / gay / Single

London, United Kingdom

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I am earthy, moany, and funny.

My Self-Summary

Just came out with my first book, which occasioned great joy. Second book on the way. What can I say? I'm torn between packing up and forgetting about this female business, and thinking hmm, it would be nice to share my cave. At least sometimes.

What I’m doing with my life

[writing], [dreaming], cycling along tow paths, part time working, looking after friend's kids, swimming in the women's pond

I’m really good at

providing
describing ambience
drinking
thinking
plotting against capitalism
ditto patriarchy
eating fry ups

The first things people usually notice about me

my trousers

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

really into short fiction, don't tend to watch movies, world, folk, roots and accapella. High fat food vegetarian and know I should be vegan but I love butter

The six things I could never do without

Singing, garlic, nature, fires, sarcasm, snuggles

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life post patriarchy and capitalism

On a typical Friday night I am

round my friend's house

You should message me if

I don't know I'm new to this. If you feel like it.