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47 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:14am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more
English, German, French

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My self-summary
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I'm a creative nomad-geek. For pay: I work from home or the road, tele-consulting and writing software, usually for movie studios but now a couple of projects for myself. For fun: I make indie films with friends, run, and travel. I love the flexibility my work gives me and I take advantage of it.

I have a great family I'm close with, even though we all live too far away from each other. I earned an Academy Award in science and technology early on, which has been great for the resume. I remodeled my house. I love it now.

I'm looking for a true partner: sweet, smart, beautiful, sexy, warm, adaptable, creative, funny, positive, decent, honest, hopeful. Likes to travel, not just stay in resorts, and is open to living overseas, for at least a short adventure. Wants to meet in person in a low-key, casual way, hates this part.

Note: I hope my age range, being younger than me, doesn't come off wrong. Got married too young and divorced right after. I have son (21), loved being a dad, would love the chance again with a real partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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I invent and make things, for work and for myself. I run marathons. I make films with friends.
I’m really good at
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Washing dishes, procrastinating at writing, word games, developing software, running marathons.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Massive Attack, Radiohead, Elliott Smith, Peewee Herman, 70s movies, documentaries (Dark Days!), Maus, SNL, the Smiths, (old) Echo and the Bunnymen, Public Enemy, Digital Underground, George Orwell, Miles Davis, Mozart, Bach, Chopin, Dog Day Afternoon, Badlands, The Smiths, Santigold, Broken Bells, Air, MGMT's first album, Wes Anderson, nature, coffee, pine needles, factories, municipal buildings, labor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, wide open spaces, dinner parties, red wine, coffee, reading.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If there’s a word for fear of cameras. And how to take down video from the web, especially that drunken red carpet interview where I’m grinning like a nervous hyena.
You should message me if
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You're any or all of these: sweet, smart, funny, beautiful, warm, kind, adaptable, creative, positive, decent, honest, hopeful.