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25 M Chicago, IL

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My self-summary
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Oh hey lets try and talk to an unknown number os strangers about ourselves... sounds like a great time *insert all of the social anxiety and jitters and continual re editing here*
what would you like to know about me? you could always just ask, that might be easier for all of us...

I like to fancy myself a Radical Queer Theorist... I dabble in activism work but lac of personal sustainability and other such issues my "activeness" has been less than I would like.

I'm an AMAB Trans femminin and genderfluid person. to be competly honest i dont have the time, energy, or mental health to be your trans 101, if you cant aproach me in a way that i can maintain a sense of personal safty i most likely will not respond.

I go by gender neutral pronouns of Ze and Hir. I understand they are hard to remember so I wont get pissed if you slip up, but at least give it a try, all I ask for is respect.

Im pollyamous by practice pollyfedelic by theory, sex positive, kink positive, and I try to be a lot of fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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putting plans of activism on the back burnner as i just graduated and have student loans breathing down my neck. at the moment i am mostly working to maintain a sustainable life in chicago wich is no walk in the park... but im making it happen and if anyone has any small scale community organising that they would like to chat with me about PLEASE feel free to hit me up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking your ear off about social theory and issues. Im a poet and a theatre nerd but more so using my performance background for social advocacy ( though i promise i can talk about other things, as much as it may not seem like it from these posts haha)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair
my eyes
my style (or lack there of)
how fucking loud i am
the fact that i dont stop talking
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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hate favorites lists... i like to try new things and not limit myself to one or 2 favorites, as far as books and movies go i like fantasy and magical realism, and for any art form I LOVE spectacle work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends
my family
good conversation
my spirituality
not in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
i feel like these are getting repetitive...
You should message me if
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open minded
looking for a good conversation