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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
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5' 5" (1.66m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Master painter of rooms, hat addict from the age of 3, big eater, photo enthusiast, entrepreneur and one witty bloody charmer w/ a great affinity for the absurd and the vulgar.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Painting, learning new tricks, minding my own business, drinkin coffee, playin records, meditating daily, getting intimate with reality, eating a lot... of meat, practicing keeping my heart open...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, giving hugs, sitting still, short bursts of speed, catching things before they hit the ground, visualization, having an opinion, cutting my own hair, laughing at myself, taking things apart, putting them back together and making shit with my hands
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Androgyny? Smile? It ain't that serious? I have a nice tattoo on my arm...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In brief: recovering film major so most movies but particularly funny ones (Better Off Dead, Peewee's Big Adventure, Vampires Kiss, some all time favorites), true story ones like Errol Morris docos, dark David Lynchy/early Polanski, Coen brotherly ones, big epic eye candy ones. Let the Right One In was gorgeous. Show Me Love!! There's too many...
Musically eclectic and currently Ex Hex, Moon King, Viet Cong, Total Control, The Seeds, always & forever Bowie, X, My Bloody Valentine & long live The Smiths.
I don't spend a lot of time reading. I'm in the midst of Richard Hell's autobiography. The new David Sedaris is waiting in the wings. I do love Kurt Vonnegut, Geek Love, Perfume, Franny & Zooey... and occasionally Murakami but IQ84 not so much.
Don't usually watch tv, don't even have cable, but I have the DVD boxed set of Twin Peaks, ripped through Breaking Bad, Arrested Development and love me some Louis CK, Reno 911... I confess, I totally succumbed to the magic of Friday Night Lights. Sigh. True. Detective. Yes.
Food! I eat A LOT, out of necessity, though I don't look it. For this reason, I have a great need to enjoy my snacks & meals to the fullest. I'll try nearly anything once. I've been loyally committed to dark chocolate all of my life. I loooove good coffee w/ half n half, no sugar.
Sheeeeit, and that's the short list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter, sunlight, good food & lots of it, the ocean, music, love from other humans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The. Beach. What I'm gonna eat for dinner, integrating conflicting feelings & ideas, shit that cracks me up, what I'm grateful for, fractals, dark matter, when I can ride my bike next, and how to have more compassion-- then I try to bring myself back to the present moment...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy to be at the end of another work week, eating dinner, the rest is flexible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Will never be posted online anywhere, by me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You aren't looking for a date cuz I have a girlfriend already BUT you have some ideas about where we can see some visual art worth seeing in this town. You can teach me how to play drums or bass OR better yet some faux finishing techniques!!! You are looking for a painter or you are a professional scenic artist who wants to talk shop/work with me ;-)

Alternately, if yer looking for someone to have a drink with, you got the wrong guy.