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38 Albuquerque, NM Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:36pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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I currently work at an Animal Shelter which eats up a large part of my time and energy. Partly as a result, I live with 5 cats and a dog (are you scared yet?). I'm a homebody who likes to travel but has not had the time or money to do much recently. I have a large extended family who live nowhere nearby and no siblings. I don't spend much time outdoors but here in New Mexico is the first place I've lived where I actually like being outside (Virginia and Florida, one word: HUMIDITY). An inveterate collector, I'm currently on a vintage hi-fi audio kick.

In many ways, I'm a geek. Unfortunately that includes a fairly high level of social awkwardness. I don't socialize easily or frequently and much prefer small groups of people I know well to large groups of acquaintances.
What I’m doing with my life
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Well, I work at an animal shelter, which has more positives than anything else I've done. Otherwise I'm still working on my plans for world domination; though the more I interact with humanity, the less I want that job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Just about everything... and nothing...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Frequently nothing. I sometimes accidentally scare people witless when I finally get tired of waiting for them to notice that I've been standing right behind them for the past five minutes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Terry Pratchett, Carole Nelson Douglas, Charles Stross, Kim Harrison and others.

Movies: Too many to list (thank you Netflix).

Shows (Lately): Time Team, Agatha Christie's Poirot, Murdoch Mysteries, Mythbusters, Eureka, Castle, Dr. Who, Sherlock.

Music: Very little that I don't like; had to change out the car stereo for one that accepts a flash drive and every room in the house has a stereo system...

Food: Indian, Thai, Japanese, French, BBQ... anything good really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
My pets
My family
well, at the moment I can't think of anything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Retreating from the world and decompressing from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am sometimes painfully shy and have no idea how to start a conversation.
You should message me if
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As for who and what I'm looking for, at this point I have very few hard and fast ideas. To hijack a phrase: "I'll know it when I see it." You should be the same.