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raka1978

31 / F / straight / Single

Kansas City, Missouri

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am curly, smart assy, and funny.

My Self-Summary

I have a thing for lists, so here are a few random things about me. Drop me a line if your list fits with mine. :)

• Still, always, wish on stars.

• Deathly afraid of giant squid...and sharks, not that it is rational here in Missouri.

• Love live music, nutella, local restaurants, reading at coffee houses, the Kinks, all things zombie, british humor, being outside, sour patch kids, driving around listening to music late at night, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, old video games, meeting new people and hearing their stories.

• Just got a shiny red ukelele and am attempting to master Folsom Prison Blues and Walking After Midnight.

• I LOVE wandering conversations and listening to great music over a bottle of wine. Might be my favorite way to spend a night.

• I automatically love every sports and war movie ever made. It really defies all logic.

• There is no spicy that is ever hot enough.

• Never seen any of the original Star Wars or Godfathers.

• I LOATHE drink sweat and mosquitos are just not necessary.

• I can't seem to get enough of boys with beards who play the banjo, like the Avett Brothers...easily one of the best concerts I have see. And boys with beards without banjos too. :)

• If I had it to do all over, I would be in the F.B.I.

What I’m doing with my life

• I am an Art Director/Designer by day, a prof at KU by night, a rockstar princess ninja detective in my dreams.

• Building an Eco friendly house...on a tiny budget...just for the adventure of it. (which involves a year of no TV, 2 dirty boy roommates for the first time in 9 years, and selling my almost everything I owned)

I’m really good at

• making mixed cds
• talking about anything with anyone
• getting my way... ;)
• knowing the words to almost every song (I think I might have a disorder)
• spoiling my niece
• being restless...always doing
• strummin the crap out of my ukulele (actually just learning, but still strummin like a fool)

The first things people usually notice about me

• curly hair
• smile
• that I am super duper sarcastic
• that I make them laugh

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: M. Ward, Cat Stevens, Nick Drake, Bill Callahan, Cat Power, Beatles, Avett Brothers, David Byrne, Talking Heads, Joy Division, David Bowie, Metric, Beastie Boys, Raconteurs, Andrew Bird, Beck, Ben Lee, Snoop Dogg, Tribe Called Quest, Mos Def, REM, Old U2, Velvet Underground, The Kinks, White Stripes, Hot Chip, Junior Boys, Fujiya Miyagi, The Knife, Badly Drawn Boy, the Eels, Snoop, Jose Gonzalez, Casiotone for the Painfully Alone, Gogol Bordello, Black Keys, Townes Van Zandt, Rodriguez, Matt & Kim, Does it Offend You Yeah?, Beirut, Modern Lovers, The Clash, Nouvelle Vague, Clem Snide, Belle and Sebastian, The Cure and lots lots more...I could go on for days.

TV Shows: It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia!!! Arrested Development, Trueblood, Freaks and Geeks, Dexter, Weeds, Californication, Anything on Discovery and the History Channel, Best Week Ever...

Favorite Movies:Fight Club, Clue, Virgin Suicides, Me you and Everyone we Know, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Lost in Translation, Rear Window, Vertigo, Big Lebowski, Indiana Jones, Shawshank Redemption, Somersault, O Brother Where Art Thou, Shaun of the Dead, Evil Dead, Best in Show, Rushmore, American Psycho, Beetlejuice, Sixteen Candles, Delicatessen, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Edward Scissorhands, Royal Tenebaums, Lost Boys, Pulp Fiction

Authors: Vonnegut, Palahniuk, Klosterman, Hemingway, Poe, Kerouac, Murakami, Foer, Thompson and lotsa trashy ones too. I have a trashy, classy, trashy, classy policy...but I cheat...a lot.

The six things I could never do without

• Live music..and random mixes
• Lists :)
• iPhone
• My awesome friends
• Local restaurants and stores
• Grinder's tots shared with friends
• new experiences

I spend a lot of time thinking about

• my job
• house plans
• why they don't sell reese's peanut butter eggs all year round (best chocolate to peanut butter ratio)
• where to go for lunch
• the people I care about
• why laughter doesn't rhyme with daughter

On a typical Friday night I am

• having dinner with friends
• going to concerts or movies or drinks or all of these
• taking a nap...in my amazing bed...maybe my favorite hobby

You should message me if

• you are a best friend that drives me wild and kills spiders as necessary

• you dig MarioKart, peanut butter and singing in the shower

• you crave new experiences

• you know how to use there, they're and their

• you are totally cool with your inner dork...and mine :)

• you don’t have it all figured out

• you are wrong in all the right ways, right in all the best ways