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ralph327

20 / M / straight / Single

El Paso, Texas

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
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New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
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Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
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Kids
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am clever, curious, and confused.

My Self-Summary

I'm an alternative-hedonist. I'm looking to make the most of my life, but I'm going to do it in an ethical way. What does that mean? Sometimes I don't know myself. I have very contradictory desires.

For instance, I hate materialism, but I find myself loving my computer and camera. I don't want to be a part of any economic system, but I want to be able to raise a family.

I have too many dreams and goals to be able to achieve any of them. I also lack motivation sometimes. I need someone their to motivate me. As independent as I am, sometimes I think I lack a better half.

I probably think way too much for my own good, but I wouldn't have it any other way. Philosophy is a big part of my life. Philosophy and philosophical fiction are my self help books.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm still figuring things out. I want to help society in one way or another.

For now, I'll go and do the college thing till I find my way. Hopefully, that path handles paying the loans off...

I’m really good at

I excel at web design when it comes to the back end. I love making good databases and creating PHP classes that make sense. Creating a website is my art.

Also, I've been doing a lot more cooking and I've received many compliments there. I'm flexitarian so I stick mainly to vegetarian dishes, but I do eat some meat. I am still able to cook a mean steak!

Here's another random fact, in high school I was called the Virgin Sex God, because people came to me and asked about sex even though I was a virgin at the time. How I knew what I was saying I don't even know. Maybe I read it somewhere...

I'm also a good kisser apparently. I still don't believe people when they tell me that.

The first things people usually notice about me

When people first meet me, they think I'm quiet. They finally realize I'm pretty boisterous when I warm up to them.

I start off as shy in person, but that's because I want to know how free I am to be myself in front of you.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love existentialist philosophy. Friedrich Nietzsche is my favorite philosopher. But, my favorite book is probably The Stranger. I also love fiction in the style of Charles Bukowski or Hunter S. Thompson. Also, I can't help but always relate to Holden Caulfield from The Catcher in the Rye.

I love movies. Terry Gilliam is my favorite director followed closely by Stanley Kubrick. My favorite move though is Taxi Driver. Robert de Niro is the man!

When it comes to music I'm all over the place. I like punk, psychobilly, death metal, blues, psychedlic rock, folk, electronic, drum & bass, alternative rap, and many many other genres. My all time favorite bands though are The Doors, The Dead Kennedys, and Morbid Angel.

I'm vegetarian!! Have you ever been to Pho Tre Bien? Its delicious!

I still don't know what my favorite vegetarian dish is. I do eat lotsa PB&J though. That's just classic yummyness though.

The six things I could never do without

Above all, I need my cellphone. I'm definitely connected to everything that way. So, I guess I also need Facebook, Twitter, social contact, a calendar, and alarm clock; which my cellphone has conveniently enough!

I guess that shows that I'm very independent, but hunger to be with people. This is again another weird contradictory aspect of myself. I have no idea how to explain it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What is the meaning of life? I could work as hard as possible to make my life easy, comfortable, and full of leisure. But, I want to give others access to the good things I have already. How can I help the world?

Where am I going?

Will the path I choose allow me to have a family?

So, basically my future and existence in general.

On a typical Friday night I am

I get out with friends whenever the time arises be it a weekend or weekday.

But, sometimes I'm just stuck home because there is nothing planned. I get bored! I want to go out and do interesting things! Who wants to escape with me just for a little while?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I never think too far ahead. I think about where I could go and how I could achieve that, but I don't ever choose what I'll do. I kinda just let things work out for themselves.

That sometimes brings near disaster to my life, but I feel its a more honest living.

You should message me if

You want to talk about complicated things and not necessarily get to a solution. Let's just get lost together.

Or, hey! Maybe you're just looking for some fun. I'm up for a small break from harsh reality.

Or, maybe you just need some help. You need someone to talk to. You need a hug. You need a massage. Or, you want a free meal!

I'm a giver and a lover. Let me know what you want ;)

You can get me on AIM: ubrmnsch327