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39 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:48am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Favorite topics are art and nature. My career is a mix of science and art. At my best when balancing these with play, humor, and creativity. When you're a kid, life should be fun. As a grown up, life should be seriously funny.

I am focused and creative - I can spend hours painting, writing or surfing and feel comfortable. Consider myself both an introvert and extrovert, as I like being around people, just not in loud places. Cafes are where I enjoy to relax and chat.

From upstate NY, grew up around fields and forests. Love hiking and outdoors, curiosity, and adventure. Also enjoy cities, but less for bars, and more for tango, jazz and art shows.

Always in favor of a good cafe, a hot drink and a sketchbook.
What I’m doing with my life
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- Making things
- Drawing, painting
- Thinking about life
- Reading
- Cooking (yes, i enjoy it)
- Love the water: surfing, sailing
- Working: Computer graphics, AI
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Better at things I love, of course. Scupture and painting perhaps.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I find asking questions more interesting than opinionated debate. Like to explore how people live together, how they live with nature, or in nature, or with various plants and animals. Fan of George Carlin, XKCD, and Simons Cat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recent movies: Gravity
Music: David Bowie, The Cars, Blondie also Gorillaz, and one hit wonders like Men at Work and Wall of Voodoo (Mexican Radio).
Movies: Tron, Batman Begins, Wonder Boys.
Food: Try and name a food I don't like.
Books: Science fiction, classics, Tom Robbins.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Human things: Play, Friends, Family, Coworkers, Role models, Teachers
- Business things: Environment, Challenges, Successes, Rewards, Interaction
- Romantic things: Compassion, Friendship, Love, Intimacy, Sex, Commitment
- Physical things: Food, Water, Sleep, Shelter, Warmth, Touch
- Body things: Head, Eyes, Mouth, Skin, Hands, Heart
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Daydreaming.. Or, dancing Tango.
You should message me if
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Don't be afraid to message me first. I message people I'm interested in, but I also understand that women get a lot of requests. Meeting the right person is a challenge. If both men and women would reach out, I think okc would be more engaging. Feel free to message me.