I am {spiritual }, {passionate}, and {compassionate}.
My Self-Summary
I am a person who is full of life and love. I have many passions
(art, music, books}. I treasure my friends (many) and family. I've
always been a hard worker and I play just as hard. I truly enjoy
life. I do a lot of
traveling whether it's to another
country, state or just for a weekend retreat to someplace nearby. I
own a vacation time-share and use it several times a year. I enjoy
eating at ethnic restaurants (whatever that is,we're all ethnic),
going to
galleries and
museums or just strolling along the
beach. I am an avid
reader and read on the average a dozen
books a year. I'm not much of a TV fan, however I do like
PBS and several news and nature
programs. I love to listen to
NPR. I even occasionally watch a football or
baseball game. I am a Giants fan and enjoy going to that lovely
stadium a few times per year. I enjoy going out to
movies but not alone. I especially
like foreign and independent films.
Hiking is another favorite past-time of
mine and I know a lot of really cool trails around the area. Due to
back problems I can't hike the way I used to so I go for shorter
distances and less steep inclines. Politically, I am very much a
Liberal and I am
active in the political process. I am an active
environmentalist,active in the political process, especially in my
community, champion of women's rights,gay rights and social justice
for all people. I feel that we all have an innate responsibility
for the welfare of the planet and our fellow beings.
What I’m doing with my life
I have my own business, so that takes up a lot of my time. I'm also
a professional musician and occasionally appear at some of the
local clubs. I've played saxophone professionally since I was
fifteen. I'm working on a manuscript for a book of poems and am
doing some art work.
I am also focusing on my spirituality, trying to set aside some
time each day for meditation. I must admit that I haven't been too
successful at it. I really have to work on my discipline.
I've just spent a great deal of my free time answering OKCupid
questions. Now that I've answered all 3863, I ask myself, "Do I
feel smarter, do I match myself 100%? Well it was a dumb way of
spending my time but it was fun and I was anal about completing
what I started. Now i'm still wondering, what must I do to be a
100% match with myself? Maybe it's because I'm a man looking for a
woman. That might just explain it, but who knows what lurks in the
mind of the computer?
I’m really good at
Playing the saxophone or so I've been told. I'm also a very good
listener. I'm mechanically inclined and am good at fixing things
around the house.
I'm good at cooking, Asian, Mediterranian, Soul food, and
occasionally baking. I just made some delicious orange marmalade
that was a big hit for my friends and neighbors. I used to be good
at playing tennis before I injured my back. Now I'm very good at
watching a match, especially women's tennis.
I'm good at traveling and keep my passport current. I speak bits
and pieces of enough languages that I am at ease in any country.
Traveling with a saxophone is also a big help. People tend to walk
up to me and want to know what is that instrument and if I'm
famous. I say "no I'm not, but you can have my autograph anyway".
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, that I'm not very tall, my wit, and upon closer
examination, the blue ring around my brown eyes, that I am pretty
much laid-back.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The dictionary, biographies, anthropology, some fiction but mainly
nonfiction on many different subjects. The most recent titles are:
"Under the Tuscan Sun", "Ansel Adams, an Autobiography",and
"Southerners, Portrait of a People" by Charles Kuralt, Joseph
Campbell's "The Power of Myth", "A Field Guide to America's
Houses", "Rumi", "Gilbran", "Langston Hughes", "Gunter Grass". I
can't think of a favorite movie (I like indies and foreign films. I
usually catch three or four movies a month. I was just reminded
about how much I enjoy the movies of Bergman ("The Seventh Seal"
and "Wild Strawberries"). My musical tastes are eclectic but mostly
jazz in recent years (Miles, Coltrane, Bird, Dizzy, Monk, Brubeck,
Sonny Rollins, Wes Montgomery, McCoy). The jazz singers (Ella,
Billie, Sarah, Joe Williams, Tony Bennet). I really enjoy reggae,
especially the older artists like Bob Marley or Toots and the
Maytals. I played Blues and R&B for many years and still listen
to those genres (BB, Albert and Freddy King, John Lee Hooker,
Howlin Wolf, Ray Charles, The Spinners, Marvin Gaye, James Brown,
Aretha). I like Rock bands like Yes,Genesis, The Beatles, Stones,
Jimi Hendrix, Pink Floyd, etc. I opened for the BeeGees in 1971 and
enjoyed their music.
Asian and Mediterranean are my favorite foods but I like pretty
much anything. I strive to eat healthy but will have the occasional
burger. I really love seafood including sushi and sashimi. I put a
strict limit on fried foods although anything tastes good fried. I
do eat meat, but sparingly. The thought of a 2" slab of steak, I
find quite unappealing. I've always had a garden so there's always
fresh veggies of some sort.
The six things I could never do without
My musical instruments, my computer, my family, my friends, my
health, my kitchen and not in that particular order (sex should be
in there some place, too)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The state of the world in general, the environmentand the effect
that we have had on it, my mother who is very ill with Alzheimer's,
my father who I just found out today has had a stroke, my
grandkids, my extended family. I think of words and phrases and how
they lend themselves to my poems.
Obama has won the presidency and I am immensely proud. I never
thought it possible back in the days when I was demonstrating at
White only movie theaters and restaurants. It is indeed, a new day.
However, Bush has left this country and the world in such shambles
that it's going to be extremely difficult for the new president to
accomplish any of his goals. First he has to clean up the mess
created by Bush (the war, the economy, the environment, the Supreme
Court, our relationships with other countries, etc). Now that Obama
is the new president, I think about the possibility of a big change
in this country and the world. I think about the struggle that so
many of us went through to finally reach this point in
history.
I think a lot about my son, who just can't seem to keep out of
trouble.
Editors
On a typical Friday night I am
There are no typical Friday nights, if I'm fortunate, I'm out on a
date. Some Fridays are spent playing music others are spent at home
relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Don't think that I have anything particularly private. I'm very
open. If I did admit something, then it wouldn't be private, would
it?
You should message me if
If there is something about me that you find appealing or
intriquing.