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30 San Diego, CA Woman, Gender Nonconforming

Woman, Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Sep 2
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i am not an auctioneer - i do better in one-on-one situations. I.E. defining myself in the confines of this text box will not suffice, i suppose.

Or i'd be too verbose in attempting to explain as we all do here - like most here, i'm a person seeking another person with whom to spend time. i'm unlike all the others - *Insert List Of Quirks Here [TM]*, see?

I am bent, contain smartassery, and geekositude
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i work in special education during the school year, with a specialty in severe Autism in Elementary-aged children.

i underwent gastric bypass in 2013. i have recently been getting into 5K events, and enjoy exercising/training.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
That stuff with the thing...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The hair. It's dyed a deep red, and is longish.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/Movies/Music: Eclectic, varied, and far too many to list. Always open to new themes within each.

Books: Generally, i'm drawn to dystopian themes and banned classics. Fantasy and sci-fi is my long standing usual haunt. Ever since i was allowed to read him [i had to wait until i was in 6th grade, even though i was reading at his level in 4th grade] Stephen King has been my favourite author. Transmetropolitan is so far my favourite graphic novel.

Movies: Secretary is my all time favourite movie. i tend to lean more toward black humour or more independent titles. i do love Hollywood films, but i prefer for the movie to speak to me in some way. i'm also interested in catching up on a list of movies i should have, but not as of yet have seen.

Music: It's more the song itself than the genre, although i am quite partial to Oingo Boingo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The pursuit of knowledge.
Probably some variation of the top three for the second half...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If only you knew.... Muah ha ha ha ha!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unless something comes up, i'm at the Rocky Horror Picture Show with Crazed Imaginations. i've been a cast member since April 25th, 2014, but have been attending on and off since June 13th, 2003.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm pretty open. If it's something i don't want to discuss, i will state this nicely. Otherwise, ask away!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
This was written for guys on Fetlife, but similar rules of conduct when messaging me here would most definitely earn you points:

i am only looking for friends who are close by. Please respect this.

You enjoy exercise and healthy eating. i like to cook healthy, as well as attend the Hash House Harriers [] on occasion. i am starting to do 5K events, too, if you would like to run/walk with me. i also quite regularly attend the gym, if you're looking for a gym buddy.

You enjoy SCA and War type events.

You enjoy hookah.

You think your geek is compatible with mine. :)

Telling me that you find me attractive ['Hello cutie, you're pretty,' whatnot/etc] are not good ways to start conversations with me.