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29 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 29–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i am not an auctioneer - i do better in one-on-one situations. I.E. defining myself in the confines of this text box will not suffice, i suppose.

Or i'd be too verbose in attempting to explain as we all do here - like most here, i'm a person seeking another person with whom to spend time. i'm unlike all the others - *Insert List Of Quirks Here [TM]*, see?

I am bent, contain smartassery, and geekositude
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i work as a Substitute Special Education Aide during the school year, with a specialty in severe Autism in Elementary-aged children.

i underwent gastric bypass February 19, 2013. i am spending a lot of time working on things of relation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
That stuff with the thing...
The first things people usually notice about me
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The hair. It's currently dyed a deep red, and ends roughly at my waist/hips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Movies/Music: Eclectic, varied, and far too many to list. Always open to new themes within each.

Books: Generally, i'm drawn to dystopian themes and banned classics. Fantasy and sci-fi is my long standing usual haunt. Ever since i was allowed to read him [i had to wait until i was in 6th grade, even though i was reading at his level in 4th grade] Stephen King has been my favourite author. Transmetropolitan is so far my favourite graphic novel.

Movies: Secretary is my all time favourite movie. i tend to lean more toward black humour or more independent titles. i do love Hollywood films, but i prefer for the movie to speak to me in some way. i'm also interested in catching up on a list of movies i should have, but not as of yet have seen.

Music: It's more the song itself than the genre, although i am partial to Oingo Boingo. Which doesn't tell you a lot, really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The pursuit of knowledge.
Probably some variation of the top three for the second half...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If only you knew.... Muah ha ha ha ha!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unless something comes up, i'm at the Rocky Horror Picture Show with Crazed Imaginations. i'm a Probie Dancing Idiot, having just done my first show as a cast member on April 25th, 2014. i have been attending on and off since June 13th, 2003.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm pretty open. If it's something i don't want to discuss, i will state this nicely. Otherwise, ask away!
You should message me if
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****i am not looking for anyone new at this time, please do not message me. Scheduling wise, all positions have been filled. And no, seriously, this means you, too.****

As i am tired of repeating myself, i am going to be very blunt and lay out The Deal [TM]:

i have a Sir. He is my Primary relationship. It is an open arrangement. i will not be leaving Him for anyone.

i am basically looking for a no strings attached fuck buddy [or minor collection to sort through] who i can see on a fairly regular basis for sex, when i am not with Him. i cannot host. If you cannot host, i am not interested. If you are not local [within San Diego] i also am not interested. The age guidelines in the 'looking for' section are also there for a reason.

Condoms are mandatory. No exceptions.

Which brings me to this: i am very busy. i also do not take kindly to my time being wasted. i like to schedule a coffee meeting to see if we are compatible fairly soon into speaking with you. A coffee meeting at a centralized public place, where we can talk. And no, i do not fuck on first meetings, nor will i accompany you to a place that is not public.

If you have a problem with any of this, i wish you the best of luck in your search. If you can handle the situation, i'd be glad to speak with you and see what possibilities await.