Take traveling for instance. The most authentic experiences and interesting places will probably not be in the front pages of your guidebook.
What about restaurants and bars? How come the best ones are hidden in small alleys, while the bad ones get all the attention?
Do you listen to the radio? Doesn't it feel like the best music is played when you are the only one awake to hear it?
I wonder if the same applies to dating. Maybe I should be looking for you in the hidden corners of the online dating world, rather than trying to meet you at a party or a bar.