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27 Silverdale, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:55pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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You know what I miss in life?


One of those conversations that lasts for hours, makes your throat go hoarse, and leaves you wondering if you'll ever find anything to say ever again.

And with the person, you do. It just falls into place. The ease, the casual joy of even small moments together, the feeling of being less alone.


Since we all like to see those little flags fluttering about that say, "yes, she is like me," here are some basic points of commonality we may or may not share:

military brat, college grad, only just now starting to see where I might be going, foodie, blogger, fan of old and musty books, cheese enthusiast, muser, surprisingly spiritual

Other things you may or may not need to know about me:

physically, emotionally, and spiritually large; living with family for now; very invested in the well-being and relative happiness of one meager feline; INFJ

I was going to move away, because Kitsap can feel a little too small. Then I drove back up from Vancouver, WA, saw the mountains settling in for the evening behind the Narrows Bridge, and was done thinking. I'm staying here. Now to save up for acreage!
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding different ways to blend my interests into income-generating and life-sustaining opportunities.

Basically, websites. Blogging. Writing. Part-time jobs selling things I pretend to enjoy.

My favorite job was as a cheesemonger for a busy grocery store in Virginia. We had, at minimum, 300 different cheeses, and I was in food heaven.

Right now, I have a part-time gig as an assistant manager for a local farmers market. I eat really, really, really good food.

Conquering fears and sweating regularly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Feeling things "too" deeply
Abusing spice cupboards
Cutting carrots into little triangles for that rustic look
Finding very good deals on very strange things
Sitting quietly and patiently in international airports
Smiling at babies
Carrying too much stuff in hoodie pouches
Noticing the lighting
Spouting curious turns of phrase
Making things work
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look like someone they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As much as I love literature, music, food, and, well, all creative endeavors, I find these specifics to be kind of insignificant. I whiz past them when reading other profiles.

Isn't it way more amazing to hear your new "friend" play your favorite song without them knowing anything about your musical repertoire? Or to see a much-cherished tome on their shelf?

The only thing you need to know is that if your profile shows Milan Kundera as the author of any of your favorite books, my heart will do a pitter patter. Same with Saramago.

Even with that, I've said too much.

Stranger than Fiction
I <3 Huckabees

What happens in a meadow at dusk? Everything.

Music: Folksy, mandolin-filled songs that either break your heart or make you sing along.

Food: One plate of food constitutes thousands of years of cultural, historical, evolutionary, and geological interplay. It links all, and should be appreciated more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pen (and ideally, a piece of paper that was not once a grocery store receipt)
Time to collect
Sea salt
Mason jars
This ridiculous cat of mine, Henry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I'm alive, and what I should do with that.

Whether or not I really could pop up a tiny house somewhere and build a great garden.

What an ENTP is like.

The next project!

Jason Silva makes me feel less alone:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dogs, cats, internet, TV, ice cream, gardening, pajamas, craft beer, loud laughter
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A two-fer: I cut my own hair, and I meditate everyday.

I want to sing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kind of a philosopher lumberjack. You have a kind soul, think deeply, and cherish the gift of life.

The thought of living in a handmade house, growing veggies, and sharing your ideas of life and meaning sounds sublime.

You have a suggestion for something entertaining or amusing to do in this general area (Kitsap and beyond).

You have an existential issue you'd like to process.

If you're a similarly wistful, heady, and floaty person who prefers to examine, experience, and observe. Or, if you're a sturdy, grounded person who can appreciate my own floatiness. If you're someone open to following your own guide. If you're someone who doesn't mind fermented food and a woman who's relentlessly passionate albeit sometimes too often in her own mind.

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