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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Has a kid
English (Okay)
My self-summary
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I am an optimistic person who is smart and works hard. I always try to see the best in people. I get along well with almost everyone. I am someone that you can count on, and I always try to help and do my best. I am shy and slow to let someone get to know me, but once I feel comfortable, I think that I can be pretty funny and good natured to spend time with. I like to have fun, but I have a limited amount of free time. But I will make time

Although I may need to trade in my man card for writing this, I am not looking for cheap hookups. I want friendship and real connection.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a scientist and executive at the company that I work for. I have a high stress job and work a lot of hours. I am starting my personal life over. I think that I have a lot to offer, and I am looking for someone to share that wiht. I am smart, funny, friendly, easy going (when not at work) and fun. Movies, lunches and dinners are great ways to get to know someone. My favorite romantic activity is to take a long walk and talk. I love to work out and run.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would like to think my job and being a dad.
I do wish I was a better educated soccer coach!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I mostly read about current events (when I have time). I also read some history. I have read of Tom Clancy's Jack Ryan books, and loved David Eddings as a kid.

Movies: Shawshank redemption, Gladiator, Braveheart. Do not like action movies with unrealistic violence (ie bullet proof heros).

TV: Breaking Bad, Walking dead, game of thrones NFL, house of cards (season 1 and 2), Dexter (hated the end)

When I was in college I worked as a cook for a couple years. So I am a pretty good cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious essentials

Toothbrush (although if you don't view this as an essential, you probably shouldn't message me...)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work and the key to happiness (I know what this is...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Too lame to admit, but working to change that
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