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37 Istanbul, Turkey Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:44pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i have stories... storiieess.. i have stories.

The fact is i can't summarize myself. i'm constantly changing.

bu normal olma çabası bizi delirtiyor
(this hard effort to stay normal drives us crazy)

bir olmayı bilmeden çift olamazsın
(you can't be a couple before knowing to be as one)

i'm too wierd for normal people and i'm too normal for wierd people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Check out my web for photography and instagram:
instagram: species_connection

and tell me if you'd like to be my model.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
and i'm a very good music listener / archiver
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my dreadlocks
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: juttenburg parfume, Kabalmysteriet, paulo coelho, irvin yalom

movies: it's really hard to write all the movies. i like good scripts like "the man from earth", i like suprising ends and confusing fictions like "k-pax" or "identity" , experimental movies like "strings"... i'm a movie person and one who doesn't falls for strong visuals in an empty script.

music: that's another story. i searched for different music styles for a decade. so the list is very long but to cut it short i like breakbeat and house sauced with funk. and to tell you the truth i really think the harmony is very important in music. that means i don't fall for cheesy "just beat" musics. that doesn't means that i don't like minimal techno or IDM. frankly i adore the mathematic.

food: i like literally everything and i'm very open for new tastes. and i'm an experimental cook. (not for job, just for my teste fun.) and i'm having an orgasm if the meal is really good. (no, it happens in my brain)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a camera
but i really think is anyone can do without things... when the right circumstances occur. i say i can't do without music. the worst it can be is i can play it in my head or sing.
nature & sea will always be there no matter how hungry capitalism is. no nature means no life already.
love is what cosmos made of.
hmm people? i don't think i will be the last man on earth lol
and for the camera i can use my brain (photographic memory) instead.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the space.. stars, solar systems, galaxies, how massively huge the space is and what type of life forms it could have been out there. and of course what is our role, the true meaning of our existance as humans as we are not even tiny dots in space...
Plus altough we consider ourselves (as humans) the "intelligent" species why on earth stupid people are more than the intelligent ones? and why are we the only species who doesn't know how to live? how to feel? percieve?

i wonder why at this site, visiters who come from main page (which means i show up with my some recent answers or essays) are not sending messages and asking about the subject they see but instead just visit. what is the purpose of their visit then? and why the hell most of my visitors have no pictures?? am i attracting women with no self confidence or what?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spontanious. usually go out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i really can't stand to stupid/dumb girls.
i don't really give a shit about our match percentages. chemistry can't be measured. and btw the site is changing our percentages to see our behaviours and practically uses us as labrats. (well i guess this is not about my privacy lol)
You should message me if
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burda kızlar mı mesaj atıyomuş o.O

you are joyful, fun to hangout with and interesting.
you are into photography or love to be shooted,
you have funky/groovy very nice tracks/artists/albums to share,
you like me.
fotoğrafı olmayanlar mesaj atmasın zahmet edip. bir foto koyamayacak kadar özgüveniniz yoksa geçmiş olsun.