SWM looking for for fun nights and hanky panky. Or at least some panky. Even if it's in the afternoon. Afternoon panky can sometimes be the best actually.

Lets think. I'm not a jock and I'm not a metrosexual. I'm good with computers but I don't lack social skills. I've been single for a couple years but I have a lot of relationship experience. I'm an independent thinker but still like to hear others opinions. I'm not a controlling guy at all but I need to find someone I can trust. I'm there when I need to be but ok doing my own thing. I'm a procrastinator who always manages to gets things done at the last minute. I know who I am and am not confused or full of false impressions. A friend once told me I was an enigma wrapped in a conundrum. I don't think you need to figure out what that means for us to have fun.

Oh also all but two of my pictures are pretty current. :)

It'll be one of two things. Either that I'm a social butterfly and highly animated, sarcastic, talkative and prone to physical contact.

Otherwise I'll seem very reserved and make lots of eye contact, listening more and talking less. It all depends on the situation!

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• OopsKiss

I have weaknesses. Curly hair. Outward friendliness. Dimples. Happy people. Cute smiles. Infectious laughter. Oh and cleavage. Don't forget cleavage.

Oh and I read profiles. If I get bored after a few lines I'll jump to the pictures. If I like her pictures, I'll try to finish her profile. If I can't then the romance is over. Sorry. :P

I just reread a question I answered long ago, about how soon I'd be willing to discuss sex. Here's one private thing people don't necessarily know about me - I am completely open to having any conversation. Unless it offends me and believe me, it's VERY hard to offend me, nothing is taboo to me.

If going on vacation you'd pick culture over sitting on a beach. If you're not judgemental. If you know which direction you go from North Carolina to get to South Carolina. If you have a carefree attitude. If you're not afraid of physical contact. If you aren't afraid to tell me what you want. If you're confident in yourself.

I'm looking for a woman who's a cross between two women. The woman that most guys say they want and the woman who most guys are intimidated by. A sweet and kind woman but one who isn't afraid to stand her ground. A woman with opinions who's not a bitch about it. A woman who understands the beauty of the world's diversity but knows who she wants to be in the midst of it. A woman with a beautiful smile who likes bonfires in the woods, who likes to take part in the show but comes back down to earth afterwards. I'm looking for a great woman who keeps me from taking my eyes off her. My friends know when they see that look in my eyes. I'm looking for a woman who brings that out of me.

Oh and if you say on your list of 6 things, "God" or "Jesus", understand I am not a Christian. If you're ok with that then we might get along.

"I want rustlers, cut throats, murderers, bounty hunters, desperados, mugs, pugs, thugs, nitwits, halfwits, dimwits, vipers, snipers, con men, Indian agents, Mexican bandits, muggers, buggerers, bushwhackers, hornswogglers, horse thieves, bulldykes, train robbers, bank robbers, ass-kickers, shitkickers and Methodists!"