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40 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:43pm
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Used up
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Somewhat), Greek (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Autodidactic. But not very good at it. Perhaps I need some help?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a communication enabler, of sorts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spotting you okcupid people at large. Consider yourself forewarned.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once told that I speak exactly the way I write.

Conthider yourthelf forwarned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmmm what an elusive category... But 'ere goes.

I am not illiterate, but rather hypoliterate. As much as I am enthralled by words, I am challenged to turn pages. I have enjoyed Murakami and Amis in the past. Would like a facilitator in this discipline, please.

Cinema, verite, Wet Hot American Summer, and that ilk, si vouz plais. Comedy, dramedy, with some androgeny!

Boy howdy, do I enjoy the rock! I have attended ATP stateside, Pitchfork, and made my hat-trick voyage to the Austin Psych Fest, this spring. Black Angels, Crystal Stilts, Moon Duo, Singapore Sling, Tame Impala, still riding that no-wave of the mid '00's. The Ex Hex album is stellarly spotless, start to finish, but I digress, and will.

J'adore wacky food samplings, but I am far from feasting on crickets! Ethiopian, Korean, Middle Eastern... give me cheese curds or gimme death. I live in a Puerto Rican neighborhood and have yet to try a jibarito. Tell me you are the reason to break the boriquen barrio barrier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Online scrabble, the color orange(obsessed), wood grained products(obsessed), a smell- good, my pippies, and a hearty laugh.

And black truffles, lots and lots of them. Does that round out the seven deadly sins?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anachronistic sociolinguistic phrases, like might could, or needs warshed. But not Yoda-speak. Nope.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out enjoying the local sound samplings, evoking the musical stylings of some long ago crooner via teleprompter, tippling two or tree, or *maybe* falling asleep at 8 o'clock.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe in the ghost of you.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you've got that gut feelin'-feelin'!

*****NOTE: Do not message me with acronyms unless they are NSFW ABACAB.