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40 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:32pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Used up
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay), Greek (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Autodidactic. But not very good at it. Perhaps I need some help?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a communication enabler, of sorts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spotting you okcupid people at large. Consider yourself forewarned.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once told that I speak exactly the way I write.

Conthider yourthelf forwarned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmmm what an elusive category... But 'ere goes.

I am not illiterate, but rather hypoliterate. As much as I am enthralled by words, I am challenged to turn pages. I have enjoyed Murakami and Amis in the past. Would like a facilitator in this discipline, please.

Cinema, verite, Wet Hot American Summer, and that ilk, si vouz plais. Comedy, dramedy, with some androgeny!

Boy howdy, do I enjoy the rock! I have attended ATP stateside, Pitchfork, and made my hat-trick voyage to the Austin Psych Fest, this spring. Black Angels, Crystal Stilts, Moon Duo, Singapore Sling, Tame Impala, still riding that no-wave of the mid '00's. The Ex Hex album is stellarly spotless, start to finish, but I digress, and will.

J'adore wacky food samplings, but I am far from feasting on crickets! Ethiopian, Korean, Middle Eastern... give me cheese curds or gimme death. I live in a Puerto Rican neighborhood and have yet to try a jibarito. Tell me you are the reason to break the boriquen barrio barrier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Online scrabble, the color orange(obsessed), wood grained products(obsessed), a smell- good, my pippies, and a hearty laugh.

And black truffles, lots and lots of them. Does that round out the seven deadly sins?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anachronistic sociolinguistic phrases, like might could, or needs warshed. But not Yoda-speak. Nope.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out enjoying the local sound samplings, evoking the musical stylings of some long ago crooner via teleprompter, tippling two or tree, or *maybe* falling asleep at 8 o'clock.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe in the ghost of you.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you've got that gut feelin'-feelin'!

*****NOTE: Do not message me with acronyms unless they are NSFW ABACAB.