Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
queer in many ways, ggg, ethical slut, feminist, and
I am polyamorous, or at the vary least, I do not believe in
monogamy. To me, being polyamorous is not about being able to have
sex with whomever you want. It is about developing deep connections
with multiple people and not having arbitrary rules that define
them. It means being able to explore relationships, sexual or not,
in different ways with different people and my partners doing the
same. I do not have a particular model in mind, and I am certainly
open to being mostly with only one person. But, I am not willing to
close the doors to other possibilities. Monogamy seems to me to be
more about possession then wanted someone to fully express
themselves. To love someone means to want the best for them, even
if that means losing them.
I like a lot of communication, and I like to express myself often
and prefer people who do as well. I like to be reassured verbally
and often do the same. And I like to be explicit about things that
some people seem to think are silly, particularly when I am first
getting to know someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Why's it come as a surprise to think that I was so naive? Maybe
didn't mean that much, but it meant everything to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not relaxing and taking things to seriously. Getting drunk and
falling asleep early. Eating the tiniest bit of your leftovers and
then smushing it around so that you can't tell.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i am not wearing any pants.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The company of people I love. Six of them I guess.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Finding someone to cuddle with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have a part time job as a lonely cynic who sits in bed drinking
wine and listening to Nina Simone. It doesn't pay well, but I enjoy
having something to rely on every week. They say routine is good
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My penis and I are not always on the same page. Lots of traumatic
negative sexual experiences have left me and the poor guy at odds.
Or maybe I am the poor guy and he is the master of my domain.
Either way, I take viagra to help with this problem, but even that
only works when there is real chemistry. I do not have sex with
people that I do not like, and I need to feel wanted and
appreciated, just think of me as a woman and this will all work
You should message me if
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You want to be one of my new friends, cuddle buddies, play
partners, adventure friend, yoga partner
You have vegan recipes to share.
You believe in AND practice enthusiastic consent and enjoy LOTS of
communication around sex play.
You need someone to fix things. Really, i can fix anything, and
fixing stuff for people brings me joy and a sense of
You want to have a booze/drug induced adventure with a stranger but
dont want to have to worry about them just trying to screw
You aren't done breeding, or haven't started yet and want to. Just
Who are you looking for?
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