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38 Oakland, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Dropped out of university
Seeing Someone
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am sex-positive, or at least want to be. I come from a sex-negative world but always disagreed with it. I am a person of contradiction.

I am impulsive and live in the moment. That means I am not a planner, but also can easily take charge.

I am a lover. And I wear my heart on my sleeve. I try to love just about everyone I meet. I think this is mainly because I get validation from being loved/needed and this is one way I try to get that. But, also I have an intense desire for human connection. I think love and connection are everything. I mean the bee-s knees, the best thing since slice bread, better than the invention of the wheel. The power that comes from being and touching someone you love, it is immeasurable.

queer, poly, atheist, mostly vegan
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I fix shit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Feeling awkward in crowds. Finding faults in others when I truly want to be connected.

Creating space for those who need someone to hear them. Solving problems or just being there for people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i am not wearing any pants.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nina Simone, NIN, Taxi Driver, Home cooked, Endurance
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being wanted, Touch, People to care about, Things to fix, Kitties, Freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex and intimacy and love. Real love where people work towards making each other happy and that look in their eyes when you can see they want you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This one time we took my buddies truck and played crash up derby in the parking lot of this auto shop I was managing. When the cops came, I told them to fuck off because it was private property and I was the manager there. They left.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I am inconsolable, all i want is someone to hold me, and lay their head on my chest.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be one of my new friends, cuddle buddies, play partners, adventure friend, yoga partner

You have vegan recipes to share.

You believe in AND practice enthusiastic consent and enjoy LOTS of communication,

You need someone to fix things. Really, i can fix anything, and fixing stuff for people brings me joy and a sense of accomplishment.

You want to have a booze/drug induced adventure with a stranger but dont want to have to worry about them just trying to screw you.