I am a fixer and a healer. That means when there is a problem I like to work to fix it whether it is a clogged sink or a broken heart. I often spend a lot of time talking and processing with people. I enjoy being someone that people know they can go and talk to. I get strength from supporting people. I also get strength and energy from being productive in general. I have trouble relaxing, turning my mind off, and enjoying the moment. That is not to say I can't, but it doesn't come that naturally to me. I hope to find people who can help me with this.
I challenge people. If you say something that I don't agree with, I am likely to say something about it. I enjoy discussion and value others people's opinions. If I am wrong about something, I want to know. Being wrong is learning something new.
I am sensitive and I care. This can be very painful in a world that is so self-centered and insensitive, but I would not go back (even though sometimes I wish to numb it all). Joy! I enjoy a lot of feedback and support and try to provide that as well. This means acknowledging actions and feelings often as well as being willing to listen.
I do not believe in monogamy, marriage, or breeding. I am open to exploring all different relationship models as long as there is honest and open communication.