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36 • Raleigh, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 3:41pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Has a kid, and might want more
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
Im here to find that special friendship that eventually becomes the person I cannot imagine my life without.
"a good woman will pick you apart
a box full of suggestions for your possible heart
and you may be offended. and you may be afraid
but don't walk away" - conor oberst
I fill in my free time with trips to the gym, or a nice run outside, and a little bit of football. In the last year I've done 3 mudruns and a half marathon, with another planned for the spring.
I enjoy painting and the occasional night of live music at Kings or Slims downtown when I can.
But in the name of full disclosure you should know what I am terrible at : Pool, trivia games and baking....i cant explain it.
Books: Alas Babylon, Wasted, Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Waiter Rant, Running with Scissors
Movies: American History X, Brick, Super Troopers, Biodome, just saw Beasts of the Southern Wild, which was great.
TV Shows: Real World (its an unhealthy addiction), anything Gordon Ramsay, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Portlandia, Party Down South (don't judge :)
Music: Discount, Trampled By Turtles, Dum Dum Girls, The Kills, Radiohead, Devin, Odeath, Bon Iver, Bright Eyes, mates of state
Food: Sushi, Indian, Greek, Lebanese, all ethnic foods
Drinks: black coffee, good bourbon or scotch
other important items of note: beer (ipa preferrably), red wine, bourbon/scotch and scalding hot black coffee (a must each morning)
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