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37 Silver Spring, MD Man


I’m looking for

  • Gay men only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:21pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a well educated guy with a good job. I have my PMP and do project management work for a large corporation. I am not what you would call serious person and people tend to be surprised that I have such a serious job. When I was younger, I wanted to go to design school, but my parents would not let me so I wound up being an English major. I have an MBA from Johns Hopkins and joined Mensa recently so I am officially a nerd.

Personality-wise I am very sarcastic. I have a come back for everything and have been referred as both a smart ass and a catty b****. Sometimes, I say things for shock value; however, I am polite and well mannered when the situation calls for it.

I enjoy going to the club to have a few drinks and dance. I love to dance! I much prefer clubs (with dancing) to bars. I rarely go to straight bars.

I enjoy curling up on the sofa and watching TV and movies.

I prefer to be naked or in boxers when I'm at home, but do dress up to leave the house.

I sleep naked.

I love to go to the beach and read.

I like sci-fi and fantasy books and films.

I love to travel, but get very stressed over trying to pack clothes and shoes. I have been to Europe and South America. (I assume North America is a given.)

I hate dishes in the sink when I leave the house.

I do all my laundry and wash my sheets before I go on vacation.

My home tends to be the place where everyone hangs out. I want people to feel comfortable in my home and encourage my friends to help themselves to whatever they want while in my home.

I think formal living rooms are a waste of space.

I LOVE amusement parks.

I sing along to the radio when I am driving. I also sing in the shower and on the dance floor. I am tone deaf and could not carry a tune in a bucket (many people have told me this.)

I attend the CODE parties and MAL in DC.

I like tattoos and body piercings and have both. (Just my nips and ears are pierced now. . . oh and I have a PA.)

I have a very high sex drive.

I am highly allergic to cats which sucks, because I am a cat person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have sold my soul to corporate America. It pays my bills so that I can afford my lifestyle, but in no way makes me feel validated or complete as a person. I am always looking for work that will make me feel like I am making a difference in the world (at least in some small way).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have excellent organizational skills. This is mostly due to the fact that I have minor OCD. Nonetheless, all my books are alphabetized by author. Yes, I still have paper books. Being an English major the migration to kindle has been slow. I suspect in my next move I will winnow my collection down from the two book cases that I still have left. My closet is organized by sleeve length and color. I loathe clutter and firmly believe in the maxim, "a place for everything and everything in its place." Now that I sound completely crazy . . .

I am very good at crossword puzzles and enjoy trivia games. I play trivia with a group of guys once a week. I seem to be a storehouse of useless information. I love playing board games and cards and I win much more often than I lose. My idea of a good board game includes games similar to Ticket to Ride, Power Grid, Stone Age, Pandemic, Carcassonne, and Settlers of Cataan. These are games that require you to strategize and adapt as the game progresses. I would rather eat my own testicles than play Monopoly. As for card games, I usually play Tichu, Shanghai Rummy, or Hand and Foot (kudos to you, if you know any of these games.) If not, I typed up instructions that I can share with you. (That organization thing again.)

I love to dance at the clubs. I'm no Fred Astaire, but I have gotten compliments on my dancing. Of course, that could just be guys trying to get me into bed. . . I attend the Town and Country nights at Town and am learning two step and some line dances. I began West Coast Swing lessons in September 2014 and even bought dance shoes!
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually notice that I am towering over them. Then they usually inform me that I am tall. It's nice that people care enough to share the obvious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Acorna, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Dinosaur Planet, Dragon Riders of Pern Series, Dust, Framley Parsonage, Gone with the Wind, The House of Mirth, Interview with the Vampire, Imajica, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Mayfair Witches, Memoirs of Cleopatra, Pride and Prejudice, Scarlett, Watership Down, The Wheel of Time series

10,000 B.C., 12 Monkeys, American Beauty, Beauty and the Beast, Ben-Hur, Caligula, Coal Miner's Daughter, District 9, Elysium, Evita, Gattaca, Gladiator, Gone with the Wind, The Guru, Hairspray, Harry Potter Series, The Help, The House of Yes, Hunger Games Series, Juno, Latter Days, Pitch Perfect, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Schindler's List, Serial Mom, Star Wars, Surrogates

American Horror Story, The Big Bang Theory, Big Love, Breaking Bad, Chelsea Lately, Dexter, Doctor Who, Family Guy, Fringe, Game of Thrones, Hung, Kings, Lost, The Mindy Project, Modern Family, Nurse Jackie, The Office, Orange is the New Black, Rome, Shear Genius, So You Think You Can Dance, Sordid Lives the Series, South Park, Sleepy Hollow, The Strain, Torchwood, True Blood, The Tudors, Under the Dome, United States of Tara, The Walking Dead, Weeds, Witches of East End

Avenue Q, Beauty and the Beast, The Book of Mormon, Les Miserables, The Lion King, Miss Saigon, Phantom of the Opera, The Realistic Jonses, Zumanity

Annie Lennox, Aqua, Barenaked Ladies, Beyonce, Brandy Clark, Britney Spears, Carrie Underwood, CAZWELL, Cher, Dixie Chicks, Dolly Parton, Katy Perry, Kelly Clarkson, Lady Gaga, Lily Allen, Loretta Lynn, Madonna, ABBA, Mariah Carey, MIKA, Patsy Cline, Pink, Reba McEntire, Savage Garden, Stephen Lynch

Food (not sure how my dietary desires will bring us closer to coupledom):
I am a picky eater. I like seafood (especially scallops) and sushi (more the rolls than the raw fish). I also like Thai food dishes with lemongrass. Other favorites include blondies, brownies, carrots, cashews, Chik-fil-a (at least I liked it before I knew it was hate chicken), cucumbers, fried chicken, green grapes, leafy lettuce, nectarines, Papa John's pizza, pistachios, Sour Patch Kids, and strawberries.
I'm a big fan of cakes and cookies in general and fruit breads. (You put a fruit or vegetable into bread and I am all about it. Especially, carrot cake and zucchini bread.)

Alcohol (this can definitely bring us closer to coupledom):
Bailey's & Amaretto (aka Blow Job)
Bailey's & Grey Goose
Blue Moon Beer
Disaronno Amaretto & Sour
Grey Goose, St. Germaine, & a splash of Vermouth
Shots (Buttery Nipple, Red-headed Slut)
Sugar Free Red Bull & Grey Goose
White Wines (Gewurtztraminer, Liebfraumilch, Pinot Grigio, Riesling)
I really like the Goose. There is always a huge bottle on my kitchen counter. I also make pretty darn good Jell-o shots
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music
2. Quest Protein bars (I don't cook and I like the way they taste)
3. Board games and a group of people to play them
4. Someone with whom to have sexual relations
5. Functioning bathroom
6. A comfortable bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find a tidy, stylish partner who wants to go dancing, play nerdy board games, and have hot, wild, kinky sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night varies by season. When it is cooler out, I like to do something low key which usually leads to me hosting a dinner and board game/cards night at my apartment. Once it warms up, I tend to spend Friday nights at Bear Happy Hour. Friday night can also be a good night to curl up on the sofa and catch up on DVRed television shows or watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am mostly a bottom and enjoy sex on the wilder side so if you are not adventurous in the bedroom and not into ws we probably won't have a long term relationship.
You should message me if
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Feel free to send me a message if you would like to chat online or meet in person. I don't make the first move usually. I don't pay for this site so I don't to get to see the "likes". You have to send me a message (raygay76).